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no bro he’s just annoying af, ygs call anything misogyny

ppl like you who throw around words they dont know the meaning of create so much issues when certain things are addressed. HANSOL IS LITERALLY A MAN you wet lettuce.

They are treating him the way most straight men treat women.They are overlooking his traumas just bcoz he is a twink,finding him annoying bcoz he was confused before getting in a relationship and was questioning his rapist just bcoz they hate on him. The bl community treats twinks the same way a straight man treats a woman i.e.they just hate on them for the most stupidiest things,treat them like objects,make fun and invalidate their feelings, call them annoying for no big reason and overlook all of their traumas even the experience of trying to be raped just bcoz they find them annoying, and hate each and every of their actions even when such actions aren’t even much of a big deal,so i think it is kinda like misogyny in that sense.

I mean, some of them are annoyed with him because he literally has a relationship why the hell would want to meet up with two people he had past with? Especially, the one is almost rape him and the other one he almost slept with, he bj him to be exact. Why does he still need to interfere with the two? when he already has a partner? Why does he feel the need to be so much affected? And the boyfriend character illustrates him as looks uncomfortable and has already told her that he’s not happy about her meeting up with those two exes.

And he literally just concerned about his hyung like he is the most important person in his life when he should not be like that.

i do get what u mean and your point does stand generally, however i do not think this is what its about this time. hansols character is genuinely annoying he keeps interfering with the 2nd couples relationship even when he doesn’t need to. the only thing i can justify is the bathroom scene otherwise hes just annoying!!!. also please lets use correct terms in this case it is not misogyny even if it adjacent.

And why is it wrong to question the action of someone who tried to rape you??U guys overlook all of his traumas just bcoz u find him annoying. He is interferring bcoz he feels guilty that he might have ruined someone’s life and he has every right to feel that way with the way rakhyun treated him throughout their relationship. People turn a blind eye to all the shitty things rakhyun did in the past but hansol can’t even be concerned bcoz for them, that is the worst thing ever?Some people might not act that way and that’s totally fine but other people may react the way hansol does and that is totally fine too. Different people react to a situation differently and just bcoz they act in a way that’s different than how u would act doesn’t mean that it’s wrong. U are concerned about the boyfriend being uncomfortable and his feelings but what about hansol, does his feelings not matter at all? The guilt is literally eating him up and all he wants to do is understand what is actually going on so what is wrong with that? Why is every action, every feeling, every trauma of him dismissed just bcoz people find him annoying?

He interferred just one time and it was only bcoz he was concerned and he has every right to feel that way bcoz he was about to be raped by that man. U dismissing his concerns, his trauma just bcoz u find him annoying is actually proving my previous statement to be true. U guys keep barking about his character being annoying constantly that it is getting annoying at this point. U guys say hansol should just ignore and leave the second couple alone, if so why don’t u guys do the same and just ignore and leave hansol alone instead of constanly compalining about him and being a hyprocrite.

So you are telling me you won’t be concerned about someone who is dating someone who tried to rape you?? I think it doesn’t matter whether the other person is important or not, it’s natural to be concerned about the other person if they are dating a person who stalked you, traumatized you and even tried to rape you 2 times

" wet lettuce " im stealing that. Lol that made my day smh

Do you even know what "Misogyny" means?!! Hansol literally has a Dick hanging. Go back to school you dumbo

Lmao just say that you can't analyze things deeply enough Hansol is a very fem presenting gay man. Yall get riled up whenever you see him in the story when it's technically his story he was the MC. If this dude raped you and then you saw him dating your ex boyfriend then naturally you would be concerned and meddling into things like this in real life is what saves a lot of people... You lot read BL all day but still don't learn basic reading comprehension or morality. Think about why I would call this misogyny and I am also a mostly fem-presenting gay man btw

what happenned to hansol was terrible but rakhyuns character has changed for the better so muchh. Im not supporting that bs from the past at all he was a stalker and an assaulter and whatnot, what im concerned abt is you using the word misogyny when you clearly dont know what it means. But fair enough its true alot of ppls hate for hansol is exaggerated especially this chapter but hes still annoying even before his relationship with ml, and youre annoying bc you use words you dont understand.

It is literally misogyny? In this instance Hansol is the closest to being a woman compared to any other character in the story. You treat him like you treat female characters in BL.

He’s the closest to being a woman' so we're literally inventing womanhood for a man just to throw a pseudo-feminist defense at people who dislike him? Womanhood isn't just an aesthetic you assign to a man when he gets criticized. You think you ate no you did not you're embarrassing and don't ever use "misogyny" to defend a fictional man!

Feminine men experience homophobia and gender conformity pressure, sure but calling hate against a guy 'misogyny' completely erases what women actually go through. Stop weaponizing sensitive terms for fictional drawings.

Misogyny is obviously targeted to women but it's a discrimination against femininity, and Hansol is feminine. Your 'homophobia' and 'gender conformity pressure' are also forms of misogyny. Transphobia is misogyny. Everything goes back to that. Why would misogyny be more sensitive than those two things anyways? People hate Hansol for literally no reason, maybe I'd understand why the part where he was meddling in the other two's relationship might have been annoying but that was also pretty valid considering what he'd gone through. Fiction imitates life, this could absolutely apply to a real life situation. A lot of people do hate feminine gay men for existing and that is a form of misogyny.

Yes, I understand your point, and if I were in his position, I would also be concerned. But I think they could have written his character in a way that was less annoying. He could have given a warning or expressed his concern without interfering too much, especially since his partner was already uncomfortable too.
And thank you for the enlightenment. We also shouldn’t forget about the traumatic experiences that the survivors went through. There’s just a part of his character in this scene that I find really annoying, but overall, I think he’s okay.

yall are actually freaking muppets go to school like now. this is actually insane to refer to this as misogyny just because hes a twink and they experience femmephobia or adjacent. FEMINIEN GAY MEN ARE NOT WOMEN!!! and its problematic to make it seem so misogyny holds so much more than just calling someone annoying real life women are dying bc of misogyny

Oh my god femphobia is misogyny. Both things can be true. The root of homophobia is misogyny. You need to go to school, maybe sociology wasn't in your syllabus? Femicide is also a very real thing but you're using it to drive off the topic.

even if misogyny intersects with hate of femininity its not misogyny youre absolutely wrong and clearly dont know what that word even means. womenhood being associated with femininity doesnt mean that hating on a feminine trait on a man is misogyn when misogyny is the hatred of women. literally masc lesbians still experience misogyny and some of them are not feminine at all just stfu pls or go to school and come back.

femphobia and misgonyny intersecting doesnt mean that they always happen together, hate on femininity can occur regardless of gender which is why this is not misogyny are u 12?

homophobia having its root in misogyny doesnt mean that we have to use misogyny as an umbrella term when weve been given more specific and correct definitions have been given this just dismisses struggles exclusive to women tf. u still gotta go back to school eedyat. and me using femicide was to remind u that youre just a weirdo who clearly doesnt care abt women just talking shit and using words u dont know the meaning of for fun

Fiction imitates life, sure—and in real life, a man being hated for being feminine is called femmephobia or homophobia, not misogyny. Misogyny isn't just 'disliking feminine traits,' it's systemic oppression against women. Redefining human rights terminology just to defend a character's relationship-sabotaging behavior isn't the flex you think it is.

No matter how you twist sociopolitical terms, misogyny will never apply to a man. Stop weaponizing women’s oppression to protect a fictional guy from basic character criticism.

They hate him cause his "character" is annoying. Not because of what he did in this season but what he was in his story. Characteristics don't have a gender. Annoying doesn't equal feminine. These people didn't hate him for being feminine it's his character. Saying people are misogynistic for hating him for being annoying is like saying that being annoying is a characteristic of a woman.

im afraid that person with the iq of a potato is not gonna understand that they themselves are misogynistic but oh well.

Misogyny is the hate of women yes but it's also the reason why homophobia and transphobia are existant. Being attracted to men is reduced to being a feminine thing and so gay men are degrading themselves into the role of a woman in a misogynist's mindset. A transgender man experiences misogyny bc he has gone against what has been written for him and is elevating himself into the role of a man which he should not be able to do. Masculine lesbians experience misogyny in a different way because they do not fit into the box of what a woman is supposed to be like and does not submit to a man. Femininity while being hated is still the expectation for masculine women and transgender men. I'm done explaining, if you don't agree with me then move on. I can't imagine you want to continue wasting your day with this comment thread. Hansol being annoying is the fault of the author because she decided that she'd make the little fem gay the annoying one so I might feel a bit empathetic towards him. Sorry for expressing my opinion on this very public site.

They even ignored my reply

It's a drawing, lil bro.

It's already worse u don't have to imagine lil bro

real bro

he is. s2 art style sucks balls

A misunderstanding, I think. He saw the ring when he visited him at work.