The sad thing is she has the right to drift away no matter how much you value her and even if you didn't put any distance earlier. All you can do now is express how you're upset about the situation and give her more time to rethink like "i know you told me you won't come, but i still will be glad to see you, so if you happen to change your mind, do...... 1 reply
did total desperation
did live in a bad country
