Anyway we see how people take side
We see how people blame minato (see, you always get painted as the bad guy cuz you're the only person having problem in the relationship and not your significant other, guess what, its fucking tiring to be like that ok, it eats you alive - even more when shit keeps on happeing, keeps on repeating)
We see how people blame Shizuma (sure cant stop being a good guy but god forbids you from choosing whom to make happier, even if its about your soulmate, YOU GOTTA WANT EVERYONE TO BE HAPPY because you can and trust your S.O)
BUT at the end of the day Ya all have to realise no one is at fault, just because it worked by theory doesn't mean that it'll work in all relationship. You can analyse over and over and over again but everyone is different. There's no one at fault because these two are perfect for each other.
I know someone whose a bit like shizuma. Its crazy, its crazy how he never sets boundaries. I remembered one of my friends say that "If i was in a relationship with him i would have to stay strong" and i called bs on that, cuz, for obv reasons, it hard to put that emotional burden on yourself. Secondly, is the fact that his boundary should include you too and if he lets people go over that boundary, its a big problem.
Being with a nice person and a naive person