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Okay this made me laugh. They also went from the most toxic and abusive relationship, to the sweetest and understanding couple haha.

Omg I just realized this is a spin-off I LOVE MY FREAK

YES.

It's even worse now
U better pick up when it's end

My reaction to the last ch: "are you shitting me?"
Yes. Yes they are still not communicating, I think it somehow got worse. According to novel readers it should be soon though. I hope.

Goddamnit why are they so dumb the seme being a self-sabotaging idiot is not helping!!!

True like do they even deserve to judge him? Did they raise him? Lol bet they didn't even gave him a single penny when he was struggling

Right!! They knew he is poor and working hard. He never bother anyone and just do his best to survive. What annoys me is no one stood up for him. They dont act like college but kids.

It's just like that in asian societies man.

Just turn Yeomin's gender from male to female and you'll hear a lot of dumb rumors like that all around you.

For example, there was a rumor going around in my college that my friend was working as an escort because she "wasn't that pretty" (still so flabbergasted that they used this reason btw), by my country's standards of beauty, just because she used different branded bags everyday, she's not, she just comes from a very very rich family.

Another example, I had a rumor going around that I had a secret OF just to pay for college when I didn't, I just liked posting my gym photos on my insta and am still in debt from college lmao. Also if I did have an OF why would I even keep it a secret?

All because asian society still runs on conservative biases, jealousy, and misogyny. Because if girl has nicer than nice things? Sex work. If girl likes posting photos of herself? Sex work.

Now imagine all that, but multiply it by 10x when you go to Korea for work and start living there. It's depressing but that's just life.
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This is actually true, back then rumors like this was such a big deal that it makes some student quite studying just because of shame. But from what I heard from my cousins (which are still a junior high school) rumors like this, like having an affair or work that involve sex or just sex rumors, they said that they didn't care anymore cause it's pretty common. Do misogyny still exist? Yes, rumors that's related to sex or work that involves sex is much more heavier in woman than man cause it's viewed as disgusting and a whore (my cousin said btw).

Now in my university, nobody cared to be honest. Yes, rumors like this still exist(having sugar daddy/mommy, work that involve sex), it will be talk of the campus for a couple of days but it'll be gone for the next week. Like everyone just understand it. Tuition, loans, bills, everyone is just doing whatever they can to earn. So if they did have or did some work like, they're just doing whatever they can to survive. Let them be it's their life, we also have our own problems to mind lol.

As for korean culture, from what I heard they're pretty prideful of their work. And I agree with you with that. Just imagine the social shame and pressure just because of a rumor of you having a sugar daddy/mommy, that must have been depressing. And if ever at the end of the day, the rumor was proven false, the damage was already done. The image of a good student is already lost. They're gonna call you dumb (probably?) cause you didn't try to defend yourself agains the allegations. T_T