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i don’t have DID but my father has it..he has like 3 personalities and my mother has only 1 favorite because the other 2:
1. forgets they are married that already has childrens and "cheated" on my mom like 3 times for their almost 50 years of marriage
2. has the temper/attitude of a teenager who had just hit their puberty
the favorite one:
1. one that is actually manageable but alcoholic and uses drug when things gets prickly but knows how to still be a husband and a dad sometimes..

so to ask your question, to add more to it—maybe this is actually because the second personality was the first to get him know him and introduced him to something that made him feel emotionally attached for how 2nd ho-su managed moran to his personality meanwhile the main personality was never that much interactive. and for how ho-su would probably think, maybe would feel just like how he has been feeling—the thought of the second personality taking over him completely. ho-su would also probably just keep pushing moran away because basically he is already anxious but is hesitant to make moran completely away from him. while in the perspective of a diagnosed person since i have also asked a similar thing to my dad; it would concern them but basically doesn’t know how to fit in to how or what anyone asks a favor for, it’s like a decision you can’t take because that’s what you were given and will give you a headache to change(this was what i remembered how my dad responded to a question i asked him 7 years ago which was “said by mommy a few times doesn’t miss you but the other one she does, does it make you feel something?”)

i can’t ever answer you better than those who are actually diagnosed though! this is just my observations just by being around who is diagnosed with DID. i apologize in advance if i answered you than what was expected though...

Tysm for your answer! To me, it’s really interesting thinking about how people w DID would feel if their partner missed a certain personality. Since I’m not sure if it’d be considered rude or not

I really appreciate ur observations!!

Hi! p-DID system here ! Same as DID but with the fun extra step of this amazing thing called being front-stuck! (this is sarcastic btw, its not so fun). Every system is different. If you’ve met one system, you’ve only met one system. Our experiences and opinions vary greatly from system to system. One system might all consider themselves as being bits of a whole. Dating the same people, identifying similarly, etc. While other systems might consider each part/alter to be an entirely different person. Dating different people, hating people the host might love, not getting involved in each others’s business, etc.

For us, since I’m the one in front or at least co-conscious 80%/90% of the time, we’ll consider all of us (excluding littles and non-human alters of course) to be dating the same person. Even if an alter doesn’t feel any attraction to who I’m dating, they acknowledge the relationship we have and don’t feel upset if that person doesn’t like them either. On top of that, some alters (which is common in systems) will date each other! We have a couple system couples (including situationships or QPRs) who, of course, will only officially consider their partner to be their partner, not the collective’s partner. If that makes any sense.

My experience can be very different to other systems as not every system functions the dame way. For example, my friend who has DID is quite different from me. They, the host, are dating someone, but only one other alter of theirs is also dating this person. The rest of their alters have completely different opinions on their partner and have their own love lives (if any at all). Their partner can miss the host and alter they’re dating while they’re not in front, but when you’re with someone who is a system for long enough and understand how it works, you can allow yourself to miss your partner while knowing they’ll come back eventually, especially if they’re the host. However, there is the fear of the host becoming dormant, but thats a future problem. Which, at some point, the other alters will warm up and will tell their host’s partner, coming to a peaceful conclusion.

Tl;Dr : it GREATLY varies depending on what system you ask. Some care, some don’t.

OH AND it also depends on how the system acts. If they’re overt (obvious switches), the partner of the system or host will have different opinions on the alters. Missing some over others, having trouble handling some, etc! But if the system is covert (hard to tell that they’re even a system), then the system as a whole might feel the same to their partner. Making them feel less likely to miss a specific alter.

For example; with us, we’re quite covert. And even if someone acts different, people often assume I’m “having a bad day”. So it’s less obvious if it’s even me in front or not. I’d assume my partner wouldn’t feel as clingy to me specifically since we all mask quite well!

Tysm for your insight!! I really appreciate it, as it helps me to become more educated about this subject

So it took him 3 bullies, two pedofiles, 1 mentally sick bastard and shirayukis brother to understand that and finally stand up for himself? Wow, i mean its good but if i was him i would have be have ptsd by now and isolate myself from the world and people

i hope gng, that or author didn't realize it's no longer april 1st

omg ive been looking for the authors socials everywhere THANK YOU

Thanks for the link! Now I know to expect a new chapter every weekend!

Right, I love them sm I genuinely do hope the story actually progresses cs even after all that, Haruki is still this innocent dude that's oblivious of everything

literally! like, you’d expect him to have trust issues by now

Of course the story isn't deep and really poorly written, people get killed and there's just no reaction.
It feels like some plan the Joker thought about, everything happens because no one talks to anyone except Shirayuki.

On the other hand, that idol stuff was quite nice, if you look up Johnny Kitagawa, that's a disgusting story!

so true.
the idea is good but the plot is all over the place without anything substantial, if you get me ? Like, it feels more like some shorts stories than a real well written one. some of them don't really connect and its just molester3000gatron every chapter that come out-

and haruki still being gullible too is ... argh, frustrating but oh well. what can we do.

The amount of truma a brain can repress is amazing! I mean he was bullied for like months bc of some sense of responasabilty
Haruki also has some issues and expects the best of people idk... He just is trusting