Weenie5

Yes yes trauma and abuse can really hold someone in a chokehold like na heasu and be hard to fight yada yada but come onnn she already decided to be strong against him when she moved out of that crusty dusty apartment her atleast talking back isn't impossible shes always being saved by a man just a damsel in distress now. Saying victim of abuse cant do nothing because of their past is wronge i think thinking that way is backwards for all woman and victims of domestic abuse. Besides its not cause shes traumatized anymore it definitely was in the beginning but now after all this time its cause the author definitely has some sort of weird misogyny making every single other woman horrible people who shame her for everything and having her as the quiet humble girl who does no wronge and has no qualms so saintly she didn't even dislike the mistress of her ex after dhe said all those horrific things to her like bsf

I think it's fine he's playing the long game bc this girl has self destructive tendencies from trauma thinking she doesn't deserve anything good and doesn't see her worth so if he went for her too strongly she'll think oh he's just trying to be nice and "save" me not actually getting he loves her even if he told her and she would probably recklessly flee the countryside at midnight or something