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This is kind of vague but does anyone know any manga with a sophisticated seme and a not so sophisticated uke or just ones with polar opposites who just make it work (=・ω・=)
Thank you!
Negative Kun to Positive kun
Wakabaryou de, kimi to
Okay, so I recently just started home school (I'm 16 btw so I graduate from high school in a year). In the process of getting into home school i had to leave behind people I really cared about, and abruptly too. They all knew that I had stuff I was going through, so they weren't mad at me for leaving (at least not to my knowledge). The thing is though I can't help but to feel badly about leaving. I still want to be friends, but it seems that now that I'm gone it's no longer an option. I mean it's completely understandable for things to be hard; considering we
mostly hung out during school, but if we're friends shouldn't we try to make it work anyways? I don't know maybe I should accept the fact that friends sometimes drift away and that's okay. Honestly though I'd really like advice on what i should do, thanks.
As someone who lost touch with my friends because of homeschooling, I'd say you should at least make an effort to stay in contact and even if it doesn't work out, you will at least have tried. I still regret not reaching out back then and I hope you won't have to. Best of luck!
I think that if they are truly your friends and care about you then you shouldn't be anxious about drifting apart due to being separated. When my best friend moved to another school district I was worried about our separation but the trust and mutual respect we share for each other bridges the time we can't spend together and I feel that even if I spend weeks without talking to her I can message her in an instant and she'll have my back (and vice versa). However, I feel that often you never really meet your true friends in high school and a lot of the time friendships in high school are only based off of being around each other all the time. So drifting apart from people can be completely normal if there wasn't much of a strong connection in the beginning. This shouldn't be something to disparage over as drifting apart really is a normal process of life. And if people can't appreciate the wonderful human being you are then they don't deserve the time you spend worrying about them. However, I hope that you have good friends and I think that if you have things in common with them then that is an easy way to continue to hang out. Like if you have a movie director you all like then setting up a movie night is a good way to create a setting where you can meet up without feeling overly forced. Overall I'm sorry this message is kind of all over the place but I guess I just want to say have faith in your friends and don't worry about finding other ways to communicate but understand that drifting is just another step in your life and if it does happen I'm sure you'll find better friends in college where you'll be around people more similar to yourself. I'm really only saying things based off of my very limited perspective of your situation so feel free to ignore anything I have said if you feel it doesn't quite answer your questions.
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The people I used to hang out at school I looked at them just as classmates nothing more but then if you hang outside school or going to your house then they are your friends but if after you started home school and they haven’t contacted you they maybe looked at you just as a classmate ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Well for starters thank you for helping me out on this. This had really been doing a number on me for a week and a half now, and honestly I think your take on it is super reasonable and spot on. Outside of them, I only have two other friends so I've been caught up on not ending up all alone. I'm going take what you said into perspective, because honestly maybe I'm not the only one out of my friend group feeling this way. Even if I am it's fine because life goes on. Again thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it.
No problem :) I'm super happy I was able to help out a bit <3
Thank you for the update!