How do I get them? I do try to talk with others..I'm not a interesting person but i do try but it always seems like they aren't interested in me at all. Do I have to wait for someone thats wants to hang out with me? Or do i do something about it? It already a bit embarsssing to write this but i just don't want to be as lonely anymore. Crap, sometimes I feel like I overthink things...Advice pls.
Nobody is interesting, it is the way people present themselves that make them interesting. Friends aren't something you get just by wanting them. You attract them by having similar interests, topics that you love and find interesting. Join a club, start a group on social media, reply to individuals you share similar interests. If they reply back and realize you guys have things in common and over time you guys become friends. It is a process, it needs effort and time. Gain some confidence and stop fearing to approach people, you have nothing to lose, only gain.
Hi, it's really hard to make friends sometimes but you should go for a group of approachable people and ask to hang around with them. Be kind of a honest person and just say something like: Hi, I don't want to creep you guys out, but like, it's really weird to me to stay here alone. Do you mind me joinning? And tell them your name. Say it with a shy smile. I don't know what country you're from, but here in Brazil you for sure would make friends just with that or even with less. Try saying hi or good morning to people when you see them, showing that is good to see them around and with that, soon or later you will feel more welcome to approach, make occasional conversation. They also will feel interest in knowing you. Is really easy to turn into the cool guy in school, college or whatever, but don't go for it if it's not who you really are. Just try to find people that you trully want to talk to, not for they appeareance, but because of previous conversation with them. Hope I helped you, peace.
there is no manual :') -try to approach people with the same interests as you -dont sound too needy and try to sound confident -its better if u start talking with one person (not a group) cause its easier to communicate that way -dont ask uncomfortable questions and talk about smth that they seem interested in. -LISTEN. y need to pay attention to the other person. people tend to talk about themselves for an hour but when its time to listen they get bored and dont pay enough attention. -take care of urself(okay this is not a thing u say to another person but anyway). people do judge by looks, im not saying to become a god/godess or smth im just saying to pay a little attention on what u wear and how u act. first impression is the key. for instance: if a see a person who hasnt washed his/her hair for a week well i wouldnt be so comfortable talking to him/her simply because i know that this person doesnt care about him/herself. ->im guessing that y r in high school or smth (cause most of the time in that age people become judgemental) so if u r alone try to approach a person who's kinda lonely too.(shy people are the best listeners) its hard to start a friendship in the middle of the year so its better to act fast.
if u want an internet friend feel free to text me. and if u dont mind, how old are u? im 19.
What I try to do is talk with someone I know within my friend group, but isn’t my friend. I wouldn’t just start with random conversation about interests (if your socially anxious like me) but instead talk about school work, or talk shit about a mean teacher you both have haha, then try to open up more
there is no manual :') -try to approach people with the same interests as you-dont sound too needy and try to sound confident-its better if u start talking with one person (not a group) cause its easier to comm... Psycho
Thanks for that I think I understand a bit more. And ur right, I am in high school and 14. How was high school for u?
Thanks for that I think I understand a bit more. And ur right, I am in high school and 14. How was high school for u? Orch Dork
high school was pretty good, i was a very social person so i didnt have a problem in making friends.i cant say the same about middle school though..middle school sucked since i was called a geek and got betrayed by my best friend... middle school made me realize how harsh people can be so i tried to change to "fit in". now that is all over i can say for sure that once u get out nothing will really matter. i believe that the best friendships start after high school. people are more mature and they are not afraid to be who they really are. for now just hang in there! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~im wishing u the best!
high school was pretty good, i was a very social person so i didnt have a problem in making friends.i cant say the same about middle school though..middle school sucked since i was called a geek and got betraye... Psycho
Middle school wasn’t bad for me and I think that’s why high school is taking me by surprise. Thanks, again. :3 Good night.
Ohhh! I´m in the same situation though I´m in college :c! I don´t know why my classmates don´t wanna be my friends! I mean, I know that i´m not interesting but i really wanted to coneccted wit people! I talked to some people but they didn´t show interest in me :c! I found a group with whom I hang out but I just felt uncomfortable and they somehow excluded me in their conversation so I just decided to be alone! Now i want to be in a group but I feel that they don´t want me to join in :c! I don´t know what to do TwT
Ohhh! I´m in the same situation though I´m in college :c! I don´t know why my classmates don´t wanna be my friends! I mean, I know that i´m not interesting but i really wanted to coneccted wit people! I ta... @Andrewizs
Did u read Psycho's reply to me? Maybe u trying talking to one person instead of a group. And then that person could introduce u to their friends and you have a group. But what do I know Im just as lost as you are. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
How do I get them?
I do try to talk with others..I'm not a interesting person but i do try but it always seems like they aren't interested in me at all. Do I have to wait for someone thats wants to hang out with me? Or do i do something about it? It already a bit embarsssing to write this but i just don't want to be as lonely anymore. Crap, sometimes I feel like I overthink things...Advice pls.
Ask them to suck ur dickლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Those people just aren't real...you need REAL friends.
Or maybe you need to be more...idk the word?? But like express yourself and be straight forward?
Nobody is interesting, it is the way people present themselves that make them interesting. Friends aren't something you get just by wanting them. You attract them by having similar interests, topics that you love and find interesting. Join a club, start a group on social media, reply to individuals you share similar interests. If they reply back and realize you guys have things in common and over time you guys become friends.
It is a process, it needs effort and time. Gain some confidence and stop fearing to approach people, you have nothing to lose, only gain.
Good luck.
PS you can PM if you need someone to talk to. :)
You could try joining a club with people with similar interests.
Hi, it's really hard to make friends sometimes but you should go for a group of approachable people and ask to hang around with them. Be kind of a honest person and just say something like: Hi, I don't want to creep you guys out, but like, it's really weird to me to stay here alone. Do you mind me joinning? And tell them your name. Say it with a shy smile. I don't know what country you're from, but here in Brazil you for sure would make friends just with that or even with less. Try saying hi or good morning to people when you see them, showing that is good to see them around and with that, soon or later you will feel more welcome to approach, make occasional conversation. They also will feel interest in knowing you. Is really easy to turn into the cool guy in school, college or whatever, but don't go for it if it's not who you really are. Just try to find people that you trully want to talk to, not for they appeareance, but because of previous conversation with them. Hope I helped you, peace.
there is no manual :')
-try to approach people with the same interests as you
-dont sound too needy and try to sound confident
-its better if u start talking with one person (not a group) cause its easier to communicate that way
-dont ask uncomfortable questions and talk about smth that they seem interested in.
-LISTEN. y need to pay attention to the other person. people tend to talk about themselves for an hour but when its time to listen they get bored and dont pay enough attention.
-take care of urself(okay this is not a thing u say to another person but anyway). people do judge by looks, im not saying to become a god/godess or smth im just saying to pay a little attention on what u wear and how u act. first impression is the key. for instance: if a see a person who hasnt washed his/her hair for a week well i wouldnt be so comfortable talking to him/her simply because i know that this person doesnt care about him/herself.
->im guessing that y r in high school or smth (cause most of the time in that age people become judgemental) so if u r alone try to approach a person who's kinda lonely too.(shy people are the best listeners) its hard to start a friendship in the middle of the year so its better to act fast.
if u want an internet friend feel free to text me. and if u dont mind, how old are u? im 19.
What I try to do is talk with someone I know within my friend group, but isn’t my friend. I wouldn’t just start with random conversation about interests (if your socially anxious like me) but instead talk about school work, or talk shit about a mean teacher you both have haha, then try to open up more
Thanks for that I think I understand a bit more. And ur right, I am in high school and 14. How was high school for u?
high school was pretty good, i was a very social person so i didnt have a problem in making friends.i cant say the same about middle school though..middle school sucked since i was called a geek and got betrayed by my best friend... middle school made me realize how harsh people can be so i tried to change to "fit in".
now that is all over i can say for sure that once u get out nothing will really matter. i believe that the best friendships start after high school. people are more mature and they are not afraid to be who they really are.
for now just hang in there! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~im wishing u the best!
Middle school wasn’t bad for me and I think that’s why high school is taking me by surprise. Thanks, again. :3 Good night.
Ohhh! I´m in the same situation though I´m in college :c! I don´t know why my classmates don´t wanna be my friends! I mean, I know that i´m not interesting but i really wanted to coneccted wit people! I talked to some people but they didn´t show interest in me :c! I found a group with whom I hang out but I just felt uncomfortable and they somehow excluded me in their conversation so I just decided to be alone! Now i want to be in a group but I feel that they don´t want me to join in :c! I don´t know what to do TwT
i forgot to sign up lol xD
Did u read Psycho's reply to me? Maybe u trying talking to one person instead of a group. And then that person could introduce u to their friends and you have a group. But what do I know Im just as lost as you are. ╮(￣▽￣)╭