Is Amel the love interest? Because if it is I’ll be disgusted. He has to be like 30, and she’s 16, and not only that, he’s watched her grow up. Feels kinda like he has been grooming her if so. I don’t know who else it could be but I really hope it’s someone else, like one of the brothers friends or maybe Anne
(sorry if it’s already known that he is the ML, I haven’t read the latest chapters)
this is literally a different time period and era.. did ya'll miss the part where people get engaged when they're twelve... and don't forget we saw his memories he sees her as a child still not a romantic interest, but she is of age now in that world so if they do end up together there's nothing wrong with it... they aren't related in anyway either so....lol there's worse things to complain about on this site lol
The girls were clearly uncomfortable by their 12 year old friend being married to an adult though, so why wouldn’t they also find an adult falling for a woman he has helped raised weird?
I don’t think I’ve read the part of his memories yet so I can’t comment on that.
I know there are a lot of weird manga on this site, but right now I’m reading this manga and questioning it, I’ll question the next one as well if I’m weirded out by it. Who says you can’t see the problem in one manga just because there is one that is worse.
Others says he’s younger so I guess he isn’t 30. I don’t get why you’re bringing up that there are weirder manga though? I’m commenting my, yes personal, opinion on this specific manga, doesn’t matter if there are weirded ones out there. (Which I know there are because I’ve read weirder ones and I’ve also left my opinion on many of those:))
exactly that's something worth complaining about lol calling the guard disgusting over what? as of right now even though they're both adults no romantic or sexual interest has been shown between them at all when she was a child... but if they were to fall in love it wouldn't be grooming at all, feelings are fickle and can grow out of nowhere not stemming from anything creepy lol and again they are both adults he's in his mid 20s its not like he's 40, and he also he didn't raise her he wasn't her nanny nor did he show any familial love towards her, NOR did he have ill intentions his only job was to guard her so again not grooming, seems like you need to google what grooming means oor read the story again
I can agree that calling it grooming was an exaggeration. I still think it’s weird and disgusting if he’s the ML though, even if it only starts being romantic after she’s become an adult. That’s just my opinion, you don’t need to think it’s disgusting just because I do:)
Mostly @ kook99 since it seems like they blocked me, but also because I want to say it and I can:)
I don’t find an age gap of 6-7 years disgusting if it’s between adults who have met as adults. I find it disgusting because he’s been an adult and has been with her as she’s grown up from being a child. Although I understand the time period argument it’s still a made up world and in this story the girls are clearly uncomfortable when discussing their child friend marrying an adult, so I don’t agree with the argument
I can’t even finish this. It’s appalling. I think it’s fine to include rape in stories if it’s clearly shown that rape is something bad, something horrifying and life ruining. Minjae barely reacts when it’s happening, he even seems to enjoy it, though it’s obvious to be rape. (He does react later when he shows trauma, but that’s barely enough of a reaction of getting raped). And Hyeongjo is a full on rapist, not only before their relationship but during it! He literally keeps having sex with Minjae whilst Minjae is falling in and out of consciousness. I’m actually horrified by how many of you think this is some cute relationship, I don’t believe you can be in a non-toxic relationship with someone who’s raped you, especially not as many times as Hyeongjo had raped Minjae. Fuck this shit, it’s gross. #MeToo
Edit: Lol had appearantly already posted a similar topic on this manhwa last year
Also I apologize for my grammar and like all of my english, i’m still learning.
What I’m saying is that the author isn’t showing that rape is horrifying, that’s what i’m angry with. They just keep letting it pass. They just keep having Minjae be all fine with it, that’s a very unusual reaction to getting raped. Im not saying he should kick and scream during the act, but there should be some sort of reaction afterwards. How would Hyeongjo know that Min was fine with it during the whole unconscious, conscious thing? He doesn’t. Maybe Min was fine with it after it happened. But what if it acted out different? What if Min wouldn’t be fine with it? He couldn’t express anything when it happened, it would’ve been rape. That’s why Hyeongjo is a rapist.
3/10 on your argument here, some big illogical fallacies.
“Everyone is different, there is no wrong reaction to rape.” Um, yes there completely is? Every reaction is valid (which is what I think you actually mean) but that doesn’t mean every reaction is right and good for that person. E.g. “I just got raped and now I’m going to kill myself.” or something relevant, “I’m getting into a relationship with my rapist.” Panda’s point was that rape is a BAD thing, (yes rape is bad) and should be treated as such. But here rape was used as a necessary tool to kick the relationship into gear, which makes it I guess, not so much of a bad thing.
“Do you want him to just fall apart and be a sobbing mess, is that the "right" way to deal with rape?“ So is getting into a relationship with your rapist the “right” way to deal with it then? Panda is completely right, it does romanticize rape. But lol what are you going to do, it’s BL, it’s not like y’all are reading for the plot and the healthy, functional relationships
I think that Minjae is actually a masochist.
In the first chapter Hyeongjo is threatening him and pushing him against the wall. As reaction, Minjae gets flustered and embarassed.
In chapter 3, Hyeongjo threaten Minjae again, choking him and telling him how he looks like a girl. As reaction, Minjae gets hard.
This seems different from the usual dumb romanticized rape yaoi.
It seems like Hyeongjo is threatening Minjae, Minjae gets aroused by that, Hyeongjo gets aroused by the aroused Minjae, they have kinda rape sex.
But everybody reacts different to rape, some are traumatized by it, others are more fine. And as a M, you can even enjoy it.
(Not every M has the same kinks, but I can affirm that some M would enjoy rape)
I suppose he could be, I just think the whole non-consensual thing would still be traumatic for most Ms. Of course everybody reacts differently towards rape, of course some people are more fine. I just don’t agree with how the author portrayed it all, because I kinda think you have a responsibility if you’re including rape to portray it as something bad. Even if the author meant for Minjae to be an M.
You know, I think he doesn't know what he is feeling in the first sex scenes. Because he doesn't admit feelings. But lest one (after he met hyung in the flat full of guys) he hates it.
Oh and also, I think they fell in love because of the past, not because of the rape. Rape was a symbol of their twisted feelings. Kinda
It’s comedic how he keeps being confused as to why she’s scared and uneasy around him. Like??? Maybe because she’s a slave? And oh yeah you threatened to kill her.