In my opinion it would’ve been good if there wasn’t a rape scene and tbh yeah i should’ve listened to the uploaders notes because i already know i can’t handle the topic and hate it in manga when it’s used as a plot device and still doesn’t add to the story. Well either way i’m still sobbing
Tbh i’m glad it ended before it got too played out but i’m still sad about it i need to stop forming emotional attachments to manhwa
this was so damn sweet i’m so sad it’s over, this was the sweetest thing i’ve read in months <3
there’s no rape tag because it’s pretty new i assume but even so i feel like i should try and put a warning or something. It happens in chapter 4 between the main character and his love interest who he ends up dating.
It didnt happen. And if you call that rape it would be an insult to everyone who has been raped. It could count as sexual harrassment tho.
Well that was forced sex but still wrong...
i thought rape was defined as “penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” and sexual harassment was sexual coercion and unwanted sexual attention. And in ch.4 he both said “no” and “stop...” and thought “i’m scared” i get that he might’ve just wanted to stop and talk before doing it but the other guy had no way of knowing that and at the end even thought to himself “he doesn’t even want to do this” after coming back to his senses. If i’m wrong please educate me if you’re willing to, but as of now i don’t understand how it isn’t rape.
link: https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/whats-the-difference-between-sexual-abuse-sexual-assault-sexual-harassment-and-rape-88218
https://www.ojp.gov/library/abstracts/what-difference-between-rape-and-sexual-assault
isn’t rape forced sex though? Like rape can occur within a couple or people who like each other since having a relationship doesn’t necessarily give you consent just because the two parties have a romantic relationship?
and in the first link i gave above it says “ The FBI definition says nothing about the relationship between the victim and the perpetrator and it says nothing about force. It does, however, say something about consent, or rather, the lack of it.”
Yeah, there are a lot of people on this website who don't know what rape is and will defend it with everything they've got.
Thank you for the warning, that scene was definitely rape and it was uncomfortable.
Cute manga otherwise
Coming from the victom, your comment is actually the real insult.
Girl that was rape what are u on....
Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuak penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy
Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuak penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy
And I am really thankful for your answer. Since it is a misunderstanding I didnt need all the info. But If I did, it would have helped me very much understandinh the topic!
Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuall penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy
And no I dont defend rape. I am just tired with people calling sexual abuse (can be rape; but isnt always rape) rape. But rape is sexual abuse. Sexual abuse can be kissing, touching and stuff but for it to be actual rape there has to be penetration.
The insuries are just on another level and cant be compared. When I was raped, I couldnt shit properly for a whole year bc of the injuries that the penetration caused. BUT the trauma can be the same even if there was no penetration. And even if someone was "just" touched it should be taken seriously and it can haunt them for their whole life!
Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuall penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy
And no I dont defend rape. I am just tired with people calling sexual abuse (can be rape; but isnt always rape) rape. But rape is sexual abuse. Sexual abuse can be kissing, touching and stuff but for it to be actual rape there has to be penetration.
The insuries are just on another level and cant be compared. When I was raped, I couldnt shit properly for a whole year bc of the injuries that the penetration caused. BUT the trauma can be the same even if there was no penetration. And even if someone was "just" touched it should be taken seriously and it can haunt them for their whole life!
Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuall penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy
And no I dont defend rape. I am just tired with people calling sexual abuse (can be rape; but isnt always rape) rape. But rape is sexual abuse. Sexual abuse can be kissing, touching and stuff but for it to be actual rape there has to be penetration.
The insuries are just on another level and cant be compared. When I was raped, I couldnt shit properly for a whole year bc of the injuries that the penetration caused. BUT the trauma can be the same even if there was no penetration. And even if someone was "just" touched it should be taken seriously and it can haunt them for their whole life!
I’m sorry if i made you uncomfortable or anything i’ve personally never been through that and wanted to know if my idea of the topic was warped or wrong. I hope i didn’t come off as aggressive i was just genuinely confused. Thank you so much for responding i really appreciate it :)
I reread that chapter and it was ofcourse rape. When I read it the first time, I just flew over the panels because I dont care for sex scenes that much and didnt catch the rape. And you have no reason to apologize because I commented some bs because bc of somethink that I thought and didnt know correctly. You are an awesome person. Keep going!!
IM SORRY BUT IT WAS SO FUNNY TO ME FOR SOME REASON AHHAAHAAHAH I CANT STOP LAUGHING DNSNSJSHSHSB
I THOUGHT THIS WAS GUNNA BE LIGHT HEARTED, FUN AND HAPPY AND STUFF BUT IM ON CH. 3 AND IVE CRIED SO MUCH, DOES IT GET BETTER? IS THERE A HAPPY ENDING?
Damn i get they’re not blood related but still it’s a child and guardian relationship like as if someone adopts a child and raises them and ends up with romantic feelings it’s kinda incesty and gross
Rt