KoKo's Topics (6)

The rape is horrific, but flirting and entertaining a guy who is clearly interested in you is cheating, he is a terrible person for doing that.

Rape happens in so many bl’s im js grateful its not between the couple in this and yes he is weird for entertaining the guy but he truly didnt know the guy would do that bc he thought the guy was “innocent”

It doesn't matter though, he should still be careful when meeting new people and also from what people are saying, it looks like there is going to be rape between the couple.

Sadly Rape like this happens 'in so many' people's lives too, in men's lives too, sadly it's pretty realistic. •~•

Nah he's a brat its kind of their job really, bdsm can come tricky to people who don't participate in it

Being a brat is a type of play in which both parties agree on the limits, obviously the top didn't agree or have any clue the bottom would go this far, this isn't him being bratty, this is him disrespecting an agreement and their relationship.

Thissss omg
Being part of the bdsm community doesnt excuse you from crossing boundaries

Some people might think that a brat flirting at a bar is emotional cheating although it's pretty common for domxbrat relationships, even if it was emotional cheating he wouldn't deserve that. Also with the kink component : No one ever actually wants to get raped. (even non con play has the option to stop, that's not rape/ what actual rape is like.) And no one deserves to be raped even if have those kinks obviously.

He was flirting in a bar while having drinks that doesn't always nor should it ever naturally lead to being date raped.

This

Genuinely this bro

As a person in the BDSM community, being a brat doesn't mean he's cheating and also it doesn't mean he deserved to be drugged and raped. Nobody deserves that.