I hate when they make the amnesiac a complete jerk.... Even if he gets his memories back I dislike him now. I wouldn't mind her and the plant running off.
He loves her, his 'cole' says wrong things. it's a 'thing' for the spouses of the saintesses that their cole is 'bugged'-says the opossite of what they trully feel. Her mother/the queen will tell her later just before the weeding
Dissociative Identity Disorder