Shizuma knows what the problem is, and Minato although not being 100% clear abouth it he's been clear enough for Shizuma to know that he's jealous and he gave him a warning prior to their relationship about this. It's frustrating and sad how Shizuma's not doing anything to solve this issue.
YES it SEEMS like Shizuma's trying to 'fix' their problem but what he's doing clearly does NOTHING. Minato on the other hand at first seems like he's making this issue more complicated because he's 'running away' BUT as a person dealing with trauma that is their 'normal' response to things especially ones related to the trauma.
Minato acknowledges that HE IS THE PROBLEM, he's trying to understand himself first hence pushing Shizuma away. Minato seems like he's trying to cool himself out, because he knows that if they talk and he's emotionally driven and mentally stressed, he's just gonna snap at Shizuma and say hurtful and selfish things which is not what he wants to happen.
PLUS!!! Thinking that Minato's cute because he jealous despite having those reaction (aggression, running away, ignoring) is just— WTF
I mean yes I get it, sometimes esp. when first time when a significant other is jealous it's cute. BUT IT'S NOT WHEN THEY REACT THIS WAY, Shizuma said himself that there's this something in Minato's eyes HE KNOWS he even disappeared from him the few times this happened. And yet, his dumbass continues to add more fuel to the fire.
Yes it's his boss, but setting boundaries respectfully ain't gonna hurt no one?? Meet your man halfway love alone isn't always enough
I'm dying from the second hand embarrassment