How to masturbate.
Tips:
-not knowing how to masturbait is completely normal. Society makes sure vagina's pleasure is at best a second thought, at worst a sin.
-there are many ways to masturbate. Penetration isnt for everyone. And vaginal penetrative isnt for everyone. Maybe try anal.
masturbation isnt for everyone and that is normal
-normally I ...... 1 reply
Firstly I am really sorry you feel this way. I understand this feeling deeply. I was so confused for years why people didnt like me. (It was the austim) it felt like a dirty sercet that I was scared someone might find out about. But you can work on feeling better and caring less.
Instead of looking for external validation(lovable) focus on intern...... reply
Some tips: (I am an older lesbian and have only strapped people with vaginas)
-depending on your bed height. Partner on bed, you standing on floor. I find the bed is hard to get grip on and thus no control. Or do it on the floor.
-i hold the base of the strap in my fist to make sure i dont go too deep too fast. Sometime im holding it for most of t...... 4 reply
I’m not a big fan of spoilers personally, I lean more anti but not always. I feel like so many people are pro. Do you love them or hate them? And, especially if you like them, why? Super curious