This was very much rape, he said no multiple times. Coerced by a preditory friend who promised he wouldn’t try anything. Agree to disagree at the end of the day this was in fact Rape. He thrashed and even tried to push him off. You all may enjoy rape but I do not, I’ll be removing this from my library. There are other ways to gain the trust of ppl with trauma as this. till they are willing to share themselves with you, respect their boundaries. Some of you seek help.
Seems like you're the one pushing an asexual agenda on a fictional character that plainy stated that he has sexual urges but is also traumatised. some perv
Trauma can cause asexuality. Child abuse can for example cause asexuality. I get that you're uninformed on the term but asexuality means "no envy to engage in sexual activity" it doesn't mean that you don't have any sexual urges, just that you don't want to engage. About the boy being gay or straught, we have seen nothing of the genre, he may be biromantic (therefore why he said he liked hanging out with the girl and potentially his friend although he may just look at them as company) but he never expressed any sexual desire to be touched/touch his friend or any men or women at this point. Please inform yourself next time because since 2020 is soon over, we would like to move to 2021 with a smaller percentage of stupidly straightforward fellas.
Trauma can cause asexuality. Child abuse can for example cause asexuality. I get that you're uninformed on the term but asexuality means "no envy to engage in sexual activity" it doesn't mean that you don't hav... m e l o n T a e
"Trauma can cause asexuality." Yes it can but this is not the case here and it literally has been spelled out by the characters. It's hilarious how you think you have something to teach me when you don't even have the basic skills required to understand the story. Make "learning how to read" your mission in 2021.
"Trauma can cause asexuality." Yes it can but this is not the case here and it literally has been spelled out by the characters. It's hilarious how you think you have something to teach me when you don't even h... some perv
In which way do you think the protagonist is a homosexual or a heterosexual in any way that involves physical activity in this story (up until now). Elaborate. Give me the things you "read". Your proofs
In which way do you think the protagonist is a homosexual or a heterosexual in any way that involves physical activity in this story (up until now). Elaborate. Give me the things you "read". Your proofs m e l o n T a e
sorry to step into your argument, i agree at this point in the story that it seems he’s asexual, but then again this is mostly due to his trauma. he stated that he has a ton of guilt whenever he does feel sexual desire, so at this point we know he has SOME sexual desire (seen when he says something along the lines of “i’m my mother’s son” and he has also masturbated) we just don’t know the gender he experiences it with and the scale of desire he feels. (obviously it’s most likely going to have something to do with the main lead since this is a yaoi). asexuality can be seen in many different ways if you think about it, there’s people that feel no sexual desire at all and don’t want to ever engage in it, others are okay with a bit but not frequently, mostly to satisfy their partners, i could go on.. it’s pretty broad actually. hopefully this comes across how i want it too... i tend to not be the best at putting my thoughts into words
sorry to step into your argument, i agree at this point in the story that it seems he’s asexual, but then again this is mostly due to his trauma. he stated that he has a ton of guilt whenever he does feel sex... lezti
just thought i would add that in order to get over the fear of something, someone usually slowly gets over it with exposure to it over time. this is used typically with phobias, but it’s similar to what’s happening here. the friend is trying to take away the guilt of doing anything sexual by creating a rapey scenario if that makes sense? seeing this as rapey is the point.. if he hadn’t pressured him a bit, he likely would never be able to overcome his guilt. i’m not saying this is ok, i AM trying to explain why people see it as rape tho.
just thought i would add that in order to get over the fear of something, someone usually slowly gets over it with exposure to it over time. this is used typically with phobias, but it’s similar to what’s h... lezti
That's exactly what I said, it's trauma-induced asexuality. It's really uncommon but I read an article where it explains how one person can change their sexuality due to trauma, for example, let's say a man has trauma with women, he can feel himself either inclined to men or not inclined at all
This was very much rape, he said no multiple times. Coerced by a preditory friend who promised he wouldn’t try anything. Agree to disagree at the end of the day this was in fact Rape. He thrashed and even tried to push him off. You all may enjoy rape but I do not, I’ll be removing this from my library. There are other ways to gain the trust of ppl with trauma as this. till they are willing to share themselves with you, respect their boundaries. Some of you seek help.
The boy is definitely asexual, i dont why they're tryna push the homo agenda
Seems like you're the one pushing an asexual agenda on a fictional character that plainy stated that he has sexual urges but is also traumatised.
Trauma can cause asexuality. Child abuse can for example cause asexuality. I get that you're uninformed on the term but asexuality means "no envy to engage in sexual activity" it doesn't mean that you don't have any sexual urges, just that you don't want to engage.
About the boy being gay or straught, we have seen nothing of the genre, he may be biromantic (therefore why he said he liked hanging out with the girl and potentially his friend although he may just look at them as company) but he never expressed any sexual desire to be touched/touch his friend or any men or women at this point. Please inform yourself next time because since 2020 is soon over, we would like to move to 2021 with a smaller percentage of stupidly straightforward fellas.
"Trauma can cause asexuality." Yes it can but this is not the case here and it literally has been spelled out by the characters. It's hilarious how you think you have something to teach me when you don't even have the basic skills required to understand the story.
Make "learning how to read" your mission in 2021.
In which way do you think the protagonist is a homosexual or a heterosexual in any way that involves physical activity in this story (up until now). Elaborate. Give me the things you "read". Your proofs
sorry to step into your argument, i agree at this point in the story that it seems he’s asexual, but then again this is mostly due to his trauma. he stated that he has a ton of guilt whenever he does feel sexual desire, so at this point we know he has SOME sexual desire (seen when he says something along the lines of “i’m my mother’s son” and he has also masturbated) we just don’t know the gender he experiences it with and the scale of desire he feels. (obviously it’s most likely going to have something to do with the main lead since this is a yaoi). asexuality can be seen in many different ways if you think about it, there’s people that feel no sexual desire at all and don’t want to ever engage in it, others are okay with a bit but not frequently, mostly to satisfy their partners, i could go on.. it’s pretty broad actually. hopefully this comes across how i want it too... i tend to not be the best at putting my thoughts into words
just thought i would add that in order to get over the fear of something, someone usually slowly gets over it with exposure to it over time. this is used typically with phobias, but it’s similar to what’s happening here. the friend is trying to take away the guilt of doing anything sexual by creating a rapey scenario if that makes sense? seeing this as rapey is the point.. if he hadn’t pressured him a bit, he likely would never be able to overcome his guilt. i’m not saying this is ok, i AM trying to explain why people see it as rape tho.
That's exactly what I said, it's trauma-induced asexuality. It's really uncommon but I read an article where it explains how one person can change their sexuality due to trauma, for example, let's say a man has trauma with women, he can feel himself either inclined to men or not inclined at all