communication, Garam, communication. his fears and trauma are VERY understandable but there is no point or development if he keeps drowning in his fear and insecurities and leave Jae clueless with no idea what to do or know why exactly he acts that way when to him Garam is the most precious thing in the whole world, we've seen how bro would fo ANYTHING for him he literally did a 180 from how he was in the beginning. u can tell he actually loves him considering the fact he's also Jae's first love.
while it WOULD be cute if this was someone discovering their gender identity, a lot of ppl need to realize that crossdressing is simply a hobby or kind of a form of expression similar to drag. Tsubaki from windbreaker is also a great example and he explains it well how he's still a man and identifies as one, he enjoys/loves wearing women's clothing.










NOOOOO THE POOR BABY SAVE HIMMMMMMM