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Lala April 28, 2024 6:39 am

I just hoped the senpai ended up with Aoi
They were such a cute match and pretty compatible. The plot was going so well. Then the blonde senpai could be with Naho, their relationship was so cute, the blonde did not reinforce the his narcissism but instead pointed out hus flaws and made him realize it was ok to be like that. I really loved how in the beggining he was cold then he was opening up to naho to the point of liking origami and learning how to do it himself in order to exchange it with naho. My main couple. I knew from the cover who the main couple would be and that my ship would have no future but I'd love if that were to happen aaaaaaaaaa I think the senpai is actually a obsessive liar jerk who doesnt lets him have friends and harassed a kid who said he was not ready yet

Lala March 4, 2024 7:36 am

Being honest here I wanna find out. I know he's neurodivergent but I can't recognize which syndrome is it. Is it narcissism? Autism? Asperger? Does someone know? I wanna know more about it

    Kuzo March 4, 2024 2:23 pm

    Seeing how his mother feel so sad back then, I guess he is psychopath.

    yoonso March 4, 2024 7:48 pm

    i think sociopathy

    Lala March 5, 2024 3:37 am

    No no no I have studied a Lil bit of psychopaty in forensics Sciences and I don't think he's a psychopath at all. Maybe a sociopath but I still think he's still away from that. Many neurodivergences and personality disorders have some simmilar traits.

    -he's possessive over his friend, but he cares a lot about him and is very perceptive about his feelings. He knows when he is lying (so he comprehends emotions) and he can feel emotions such as jealousy, loneliness and happiness ti be with him.
    - he's has violent reflexes (but has learned how to surpress the urge and knows that it is wrong) and doesn't like to interact with friends but pretends to be neurological to fit. Yet he dislikes people.

    Mmmmmm i wanna know

    irl mika kagehira April 21, 2024 8:22 pm

    Hey I know this is a very late reply but this comment is rlly insensitive. Aspergers isn’t a recognized disorder anymore, it’s just autism now. And this comment implies something negative w these disorders. Lumping in Autism w Narcissism is very insensitive as Autism is just something your born with. Narcissism is a cluster-b mental disorder and while it can be be genetic, it is usually because of a traumatic childhood experience that someone develops it. People with Narcissism aren’t monsters, it’s important to acknowledge that they can be toxic if theyre not seeking help with managing the disorder, but it’s still important to treat them as people. I don’t have Narcissism, but as someone who suffers from a different cluster-b disorder, BPD, it’s very hurtful.

    Lala April 22, 2024 3:58 am
    Hey I know this is a very late reply but this comment is rlly insensitive. Aspergers isn’t a recognized disorder anymore, it’s just autism now. And this comment implies something negative w these disorders.... irl mika kagehira

    Am I being insensitive for wanting to know more about what is his neurodivergence? I don't think so it was a genuine question as I am a geneticist researcher myself and want to know. Idk about your knowledge but in my country asperger is indeed part of the autism spectrum but it is still a neurodivergence. I myself did not diagnose him with any of the aforementioned neurodivergence as I am not a psychiatrist. And I did not "lump" I am no specialist by no means, all I know are some characteristic traits as I myself live with a narcissist and with a autistic person, and he has some of these traits so I honestly asked and I still wanna know whether if it might be one of those. Who knows if a specialist might appear and answer properly. If you felt offended by a honest question and misread my intentions i think you should go seek treatment instead of reading yaoi while looking for dumb fights in the comments. Just live your life in peace, please.

    Lala April 22, 2024 4:05 am
    Hey I know this is a very late reply but this comment is rlly insensitive. Aspergers isn’t a recognized disorder anymore, it’s just autism now. And this comment implies something negative w these disorders.... irl mika kagehira

    You stan valkyrie btw lmao Fine and Eden are so superior! (Just kidding I also luv Valkyrie specially the sings when nito senpai was still with them).

    Back to the main topic, talking genuinely, I mentioned asperger because from what I know the autism spectrum has many levels and asperger is one of the levels with less evident characteristics. The main lead seems to have no problem communicating with people and no problem with loud songs, and he is very smart and cunning. All I see that could be related to it is that he mirrors "normal people behavior " and he gets very stressed while not in his confort zone (his childhood friend). He does not deals well with changes too. He is violent tho, I don't see violence being a trait but it might be of his personality or the way he deals with his discomfort. If he were to be autistic I would say his hiperfocus is in his childhood friend.

    irl mika kagehira April 22, 2024 7:39 am
    You stan valkyrie btw lmao Fine and Eden are so superior! (Just kidding I also luv Valkyrie specially the sings when nito senpai was still with them). Back to the main topic, talking genuinely, I mentioned aspe... Lala

    Im rlly sorry I misread the tone and I didn’t mean to sound mean! It’s ok to wonder! I wasn’t looking for a fight I am deeply sorry. I was looking to educate you, I did not know your background and that was my bad. However, I still will say that in the future do not use the term aspergers because many people within the autistic community are not comfortable with that term, as now they are just considered autistic. I’m aware you live with someone who’s autistic, and while they may be okay with it, there are people who aren’t as it’s considered an outdated diagnosis. I don’t mean this w mean intent btw! Just intent to educate.

    I do also wonder what’s up w him tho. I think he has issues but idk what.

    Also ironically I don’t produce valk lol. I’m also an Eden fan! I also produce for Undead, Alkakurei, and Ryuseitai

    Once again though I am sorry for misreading your intentions!!

    irl mika kagehira April 22, 2024 7:44 am
    You stan valkyrie btw lmao Fine and Eden are so superior! (Just kidding I also luv Valkyrie specially the sings when nito senpai was still with them). Back to the main topic, talking genuinely, I mentioned aspe... Lala

    Also I think as someone w BPD he could have untreated BPD, esp since you mentioned the potential that his hyperfocus is his childhood friend. Cause BPD comes with this little side effect called “favorite persons” which are literally people we unintentionally grow so attached to that we see them as an extension of ourselves. So like if our favorite person is sad, we’ll be sad. And if it feels like they might abandon us, we spiral and do anything to keep them from leaving. It’s a toxic behavior and leads to unhealthy relationships. This is because a key characteristic of the personality disorder is that it is characterized by an intense fear of abandonment. It also includes things like an unstable self-image and impulsive/reckless behavior. It isn’t treatable with medicine but ppl (like me) learn to manage it via therapy (specifically DBT therapy usually).

    irl mika kagehira April 22, 2024 7:46 am
    Also I think as someone w BPD he could have untreated BPD, esp since you mentioned the potential that his hyperfocus is his childhood friend. Cause BPD comes with this little side effect called “favorite pers... irl mika kagehira

    Oh also i wont lie i wasnt even looking for a fight i was only this far back bc i was trying to find links to raws, just so happened to see this while i was looking (just had to mention bc i realized that reply to a comment from that long ago like that does in fact look like i was looking for a fight)

    Lala April 23, 2024 5:11 am
    Oh also i wont lie i wasnt even looking for a fight i was only this far back bc i was trying to find links to raws, just so happened to see this while i was looking (just had to mention bc i realized that reply... irl mika kagehira

    It's okay it's okay, BTW have u found the link for the raws? My dog is begging for it too

    Lala April 23, 2024 5:18 am
    Im rlly sorry I misread the tone and I didn’t mean to sound mean! It’s ok to wonder! I wasn’t looking for a fight I am deeply sorry. I was looking to educate you, I did not know your background and that w... irl mika kagehira

    Omg u r an eden and undead producer? I produce rei and Ran. Eichi too. I love ryuseitai and akatsuki. But I have to admit I still need to pay more attention to alkaloid and crazy b songs since I have been only listening to their "debut" songs for a while.

    About the asperger topic, It's really nice to know that outside my country it has been more normalized to be in any scale of the autism spectrum. Here the prejudice is still strong with higher levels of autism and as asperger have "less autistic visible characteristics" they have the same rights but face less prejudice so many of them don't really want to be fully "tagged" as autism and still want to be "asperger". /gen tbh autism became a "topic to talk about" like 2 or 3 years ago here, it was still a taboo not a long ago

    Lala April 23, 2024 5:22 am
    Also I think as someone w BPD he could have untreated BPD, esp since you mentioned the potential that his hyperfocus is his childhood friend. Cause BPD comes with this little side effect called “favorite pers... irl mika kagehira

    Omg I have never studied about bpd, tyvm for all the detailed info! That matches with many traits of his personality. Actually now I am worried that someone else I know might have some of those characteristics too... I'll look more about it and maybe tell them to look for profissional help. Thanks for sharing it

    irl mika kagehira April 23, 2024 7:42 am
    It's okay it's okay, BTW have u found the link for the raws? My dog is begging for it too Lala

    Unfortunately I havent </3 when I found the old link it wasn’t working anymore sucks cause im itching to see more and make a guess as to what is abt to happen lol

    irl mika kagehira April 23, 2024 7:47 am
    Omg u r an eden and undead producer? I produce rei and Ran. Eichi too. I love ryuseitai and akatsuki. But I have to admit I still need to pay more attention to alkaloid and crazy b songs since I have been only... Lala

    Omg thats so real! Yes I def recommend listening to more crazyb alkaloid stuff, it’s very good in my opinion. I think if you like Undead you’ll like Alkaloid since they have a “rock” vibe. And omg yes I also produce Rei!!! And Ran so real he’s so underrated! I produce Rei, Chiaki, Hiiro and Rinne. I’m mainly a Rinne producer tho.

    And ahhh I’m sorry to hear that, that’s rlly unfortunate, it’s def understandable why someone would want to keep using the label then! I hope things continue to get better for neurodivergent ppl in ur country im very lucky to live in a country that is relatively more progressive abt that tho it’s a mess somewhat still.

    irl mika kagehira April 23, 2024 7:52 am
    Omg I have never studied about bpd, tyvm for all the detailed info! That matches with many traits of his personality. Actually now I am worried that someone else I know might have some of those characteristics ... Lala

    Yea lol! I think he’s slightly a negative representation tho I do think ppl w BPD that go without therapy are real close to how he acts, so I wouldn’t be surprised if he has it. Spoken from someone who has it, it is a very difficult disorder to manage but those of us who understand that our behaviors hurt others try our best to learn how to change and manage our thoughts and behaviors. def recommend talking to your friend abt it if you’re concerned! There’s lots of resources online as well.

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