This guy is a red flag. Touching her without consent and then emotionally manipulating her.
No, this manga communicated since the beginning everything was consensual. They had safe words (or hand signs), ongoing checking in through dirty talk, talking to her normally. Poor aftercare, but still aftercare (cleaning her and giving her water and asking her if she liked it and if she wants more etc).
She told the blonde guy multiple times she doesn't want it and he manipulates her emotionally with "You don't want to disappoint Male lead?" Etc.
Look, there is nothing wrong with enjoying dark romance, but it's very important to know the difference between consent and no consent. Dubcon (dubious consent) technically doesn't exist either. If someone is very drunk for example it's not really consent. Paralyzed by shock is not consent.
For example the trend in porn and novels about choking lead to young people trying that in real life and even gender based violence towards woman.
Sorry for sounding like a worried teacher but it is a serious topic for me. Because fictional work is often influencing real life, especially thing people see in porn etc.
I don't get why people are complaining? Anatomy or maybe a bit one sided when it comes to humiliation and stuff are valid criticism, BUT the consent is explicit and until now, it wasn't hurt once.
- first chapters had a safeword and even more important ONGOING Communication/checking in. It was tarned as dirty talk, but it was there. The guys only continued when she said something like "Yes please use me" or something.
- Same with the second meeting...there are contracts, tapping out. And still the dirty talk/ongoing conversation.
There are a lot of people on here that THINK they know what BDSM is, but they actually don't know anything at all- and their comments exposes that. Unless you've actually consistently trained, participated in, and consistently lived the lifestyle, no one here is going to know what full BDSM is. "Rape play", "abduction/kidnapping", and "humiliation and degradation play" is 100% part of BDSM. Everything that you said is 100% spot on. The rape play depicted consistently meets all the pillars of BDSM play- which is safe, sane, and consensual. In addition there is an explicitly written out contract that all participants have to sign in order to engage with her, and the Master in charge of this ensures that to ensure everyone's safety, most especially the woman's!
The art is so pretty, but the story got so lame so suddenly. Why did this insta model friend introduced for nothing especially when they were already intimidate. They just come of as insufferable morons. Not cute morons, insufferable morons.
idc how i look to you lol youre the weirdo with limited understanding, youre acting like this girl just got introduced as a love interest when its obvious to us (well not you obvs) that shes a close friend who most likely knows ian is gay and in love with someone. then when people reminded you of that you just "oh well the story is ass anyway hahaha" troll better next time lmao. hating popular things bc theyre popular dossnt make you cool.
The point is, that this is a very cheap and very common trope, that some childhood friend, in some BL it's a male, in some a female either makes ML/MC jealous or produces drama so the author can fill in more chapters. It's boring and lame.
And it's even sadder that everyone gets personal the moment you voice an opinion about something.
There is a huge difference between "this book sucks/is lame/dumb because XY" and "you suck/are weird etc." it just shows that either none of you had manners or forgot how to actually discuss things. Even a heated discussion doesn't have to include personal insults.








"I wasn't asking for permission" red flag
He asked after
we’re colorblind for Ian anyway
girl bye who cares
Which is to late.