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I just want to rant here because. Idk I'm annoyed and don't want to badmouth my dad to my friends I guess. I've never exactly had a bad relationship with my dad things were chill he wasn't around that much but I cherished our time together and am super grateful for everything he's done for me but lately he's being. so SO frustrating. He's stubbornl......
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I lied about why I broke up with my gf because I didn't want to hurt her feelings and cause her to spiral.. It was a shitty move. I felt bad I lost feelings too soon when she did nothing wrong but I had realised we weren't compatible and at some point I was just nitpicking on reasons why I didn't want to stay in that relationship anymore. And if I'......
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RIGHT and they'll make them super dependent on the top character too as if they're helpless and have no one else to rely on eurgh. Can't avoid heteronormative bs in any genre istg.
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You don't really know what he's like so he's probably a lot different from your perception of him idk my crushes usually fade out once I rlly get to know someone. Maybe try having a conversation with him without idealizing him in your head.
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I got dismissive avoidant lmao. Makes sense me and my partner got into a fight over it awhile back and I might end things w them soon
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I used to but now I just don't really care all that much anymore? I don't want to measure the worth of my life through how productive I've been or anything that shit's awful I don't wanna live my life to suffocate under that sort of pressure I live because I want to enjoy things and I do stuff I like everyday I talk to people I like being around an......
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That's such a sucky situation I'm so sorry,, but I'll say it's not your responsibility to fix things because you did the right thing and you were looking out for her and it was unreasonable for her to react like that ..especially when you sounded compassionate rather than outright telling her to break up with him it's not like you were shaming her ......
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I was kinda scared about this website disappearing forever and cuz I didn't wanna risk losing my lists I catalogued them elsewhere and luckily I did it a few months before it was all gone But I lost everything in my want to read list sadly
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flopped job interviews, uni application rejected (not too upset ab it bc I have alternative options but it still sucks) got my first gf and made many new friends.. I am struggling with dating though but yeah the year is not all too bad for me but there's sm happening in the world so it doesn't feel too good anyway
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Honestly this is just me voicing out something that has been bothering me,, a lot of my friends are bi and I'm a lesbian so like ig I don't understand them when most of them openly thirst for women while being in a long term committed relationship with a man. It feels.. weird? Like you'd get icked out if your bf was thirsting for other women while ......
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my ao3 wrapped is kinda ridiculous (bc fym I read over 15 million words) i'm gonna have to switch back to mangas for awhile ngl.. Does anyone have recs similar to return of the blossoming blade I miss it so bad ..

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Kagehina as idols or whtver
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People hating on crackships or yk crossover ships like god forbid someone have some fun... it doesn't rlly have to make sense shipping is all ab having fun. ALSO people who hate on ships just because they have a canon love interest like IDCCCC I'll ship whoever the fuck I want it's not like i'm hating on the canon pair just because I prefer another......
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No bc I'm super picky w my fanfics and can immediately tell when it's written by a kid it's so obvious even if they're really good at writing for their age you can tell
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The art's so pretty why did it have to be about cheating </3 Like if I wanted to hear ab stories ab cheating I'd just talk to my friends ..

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The idea of being in a serious commitment sounds daunting as hell but like lowk do wanna get married at some point but its not even possible bc i'm a lesbian lol but yeah whtver
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I've probably answered this question before and my answer's still the same.. when lesbian coded characters are shipped with men