BOTH of them are pmo bro, it's not just Aaron's actions but also Yujin's constant LYING I will not excuse the way Aaron decided to handle this situation (how the AUTHOR decided to make Aaron handle the situation) but I will also say Yujin's approach was also not mature. He led Aaron on and then left just like that, ghosting the other, leaving a bigggg gap in their relationship. I know that talking about his situation with his dad is hard and stuff and this is fiction, but usually you communicate at least a LITTLE, he wants to save Aaron but then doesn't tell him what he should be careful of. It's just keeping him in the dark. And at the end, Aaron also tells him that his lies are getting too much, Yujin just decided to provoke him even more, though maybe the situation called for it. Still wasn't right and it escalated it.
At first I was skeptical, then I liked it, then it got harder to read as chapters went on, and then I liked it again. I was off put by all the escalating arguments but only because I have bad experiences in real life with it and I usually avoid conflict since it makes me anxious. But I pushed through it to see where it goes. I don't even know where to stark talking about the writing because it's a good 91 chapters long. But I will say that I especially loved how it showed that BDSM can be a coping mechanism from trauma. How you can escape your thoughts and problems and how you can get confronted with them at the same time. It's all about a consensual and trustful environment, that's what BDSM is about. I also liked how the uke for once had a more difficult side to him than the seme and how he eventually reflected on his actions to become a better person not just to HIMSELF, but for others around him aswell:)










I hate when authors put hardcore kinky stuff but it's never in a bdsm sense with actually clear consent... sighhh this would've had better potential