i read the creator’s note js now and it highkey pisses me off that even tho eunsan is very obviously attracted to ian they still refer to him as hundred percent hetero it feels like erasure u can js say he is bisexual or wtv i rlly dont get it
perhaps its more like he's hetero in the way that he's literally never ever thought of any other guy in a sexual or romantic manner and has always kindled affection for women... but after reconnecting with ian ig he'll find himself slowly developing feelings for him. perhaps not attracted to guys or their particular anatomy... but just one guy. singular guysexual. just ian-sexual. LMAOOO /j
but it is crazy for a self proclaimed straight man to just give a thumbs up to gay sex like that... he did say he wasn't a quitter.
maybe not straight up bisexual but if you’re a man attracted to another man you’re definitely queer in some way there are a lot of micro labels in the queer community to describe eunsan’s sexuality, and frankly we also don’t see enough of eunsan’s internal point of view throughout his entire life revolving around his attraction to ppl to strictly say for sure he is 100% heterosexual (which he obviously isn’t because he was willing to have sex with a man.)
compulsory heterosexuality mindset is very real, especially in the country this story takes place. it’s likely given their environment that he just never considered male attraction because he knew he was already attracted to women and thus never felt the need to explore or give his sexuality further thought (completely understandable given the norms).
also let’s not forget him and his other male teammate have touched each other before during high school (?) so i also doubt a “heterosexual through and through” would do that.
sexuality can be fluid and even if attraction for a bisexual person is 99:1 for women to men it doesn’t make them any less bisexual. realistically, i do think eunsan is bisexual, and likely demiromantic towards men.
also it’s more likely for someone to be a “little gay” than 100% straight is my point honestly
I agree with this point
Plus sexuality is 'fluid' to a point that he may be straight at start but again considering the story premises at the beginning, Ian was not able to expand his horizons that much not until Ian came to the picture making him actually try to reconsider him
These type of things are not really rare honestly. Got my fair share of stories of ppl realizing later on they were this and that not until they probably met or had a trigger for it. Even I used to be straight and realized I'm bi after 18 years LOL
The only weird potential thing abt this would be is if they got together and BANGED a lot but author will still insists he is hetero
i actually agree with your point and explanation because i was stating the point that he's straight through and through because he only dated girls and married a woman before. I honestly totally forgot he had touched each other with his friend back in highschool. I guess my point did not get across because English is not my first language. I am totally sorry. I did not mean to anger anyone











I DID ASKED FOR THE YURI GODDDDD THE STORY WE COULD’VE HAD