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SoftPussyboy April 24, 2026 12:05 am

So, I don't have much on it which I know it will make it harder to find, but I wanted to try anyway because I would love to read it.
I just read a few pages a few years ago and since it was ongoing I put it away until it finished, but I lost it.
All I remember the MC was in love with a Buddhist priest, who he thought was beautiful and pure. I'm so sorry for offering so little ╥﹏╥
The art was beautiful and it wasn't colored ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

I would appreciate any help you could provide! (●'◡'●)ノ

SoftPussyboy April 19, 2026 1:04 am

I read it years ago, it was relatively short, maybe 5 chapters.
The premise was about a hero who was blessed/cursed to revive until he defeated the evil guy (dark king, perhaps?). The thing is that when he was killed he would go to heaven and wait resurrection and meanwhile he was there he meets this cloud shepherd. As he keeps dying and reviving he keeps getting this short moments with the shepherd until he falls in love.

It is really lovely and tragic, I was wondering if any of you good wise souls might know what BL I'm talking about.

I'll appreciate any guidance! Thank you!! (●'◡'●)

SoftPussyboy March 26, 2026 11:43 pm

Something cute, ideally with a soft, delicate uke and dark haired, goodhearted seme.
Thank you in advance!
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SoftPussyboy May 30, 2025 11:11 pm

I'm envious of the abundance and quality of buff ukes (bless their souls) of the top of my head: Flex appeal, Ang Ang, App, Arthur, Ghost Window, I Don't Need A Dad, Same, but Different, The Man At Night, Topsy Turvy, etc. It seems that semes are more tall and trim?

Could the BL faeries recommend me some buff semes? Ideally with smaller partners (buff on buff doesn't do anything for me).The only one that comes to mind is the guy from 2020, maybe the guy from Can't Think Straight? You see, I'm reaching.

Thank you! you are the best!!
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SoftPussyboy May 28, 2025 6:07 pm

Do you have any recommendation where a soft/fem uke consent effusively to sex? An uke that just loves his man's dick, he is not mind broken and he is not a sex worker.
I have noticed some buff ukes can be very forward during sex, maybe because they are coded as more manly, and men are more "free" to enjoy sex? although they also have a version of unwilling sex, the "I will soldier on through this because I'm so tough".

I'll appreciate anything you can point me towards! thanks!! (▰˘◡˘▰)

SoftPussyboy May 21, 2025 5:49 pm

Do you know of any BL where the MC is a soft uke and has multiple nontoxic seme partners? I have seen some cute short stories with an uke and two semes, like Eunsoo's Good Day, but I have never seen something longer or with more semes.
I just read someone complain on harem BLs and I just got curious, for science. ( ̄∇ ̄")

SoftPussyboy May 17, 2025 11:06 pm

I read it a few years ago. It's a school life story. It's about a boy that returns to japan, to the country of his mom. In the new school he meets the MC and he misunderstand a japanese expression as being asked out, but he accepts. The Ml gets involves in several traditionally Japanese activities, and cries while doing them because he is doing them to connect with his mom (I think she is dead). I remember he enters a kite club, I also remember him crying in front of a cherry blossom and with a yukata during new year's. I think they kiss at the end.
It's such a wholesome short story and I can't remember the name.

Another detail I remember is that the whole school is invested in their relationship, but both of them are too naive to realize they are into each other and what they are doing together is actually dating.
It's so cute!
Thank you in advance!!
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    CathyBLover May 18, 2025 10:56 am

    Harenochi Shikibu perhaps?

    SoftPussyboy May 18, 2025 12:53 pm
    Harenochi Shikibu perhaps? CathyBLover

    Oh!thank you so much!! It is!! This means a lot to me, thank you!!
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    CathyBLover May 18, 2025 1:27 pm
    Oh!thank you so much!! It is!! This means a lot to me, thank you!! (●'◡'●)ノ SoftPussyboy

    You're welcome! Great chance for me to re-read it as well! (⌒▽⌒)

SoftPussyboy May 17, 2025 2:20 am

Do you have any recommendation of a submissive seme with a twink dominant uke? The only one I have come across is Perfect Body but it looks kind of toxic, even though the art is great and the seme is perfection.
I will appreciate any recommendations! Thank you!!
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    yaoi_hime May 17, 2025 2:39 am

    The Hounds of Sisyphus
    If u don’t know it already

    Spirit May 17, 2025 2:46 am

    Haven't gotten to the smut yet but this def gonna be the dynamic in the guild mate next door

    SoftPussyboy May 17, 2025 2:54 am
    The Hounds of SisyphusIf u don’t know it already yaoi_hime

    Really? I have it on my list to read at some point, I heard the Seme was a virgin not a submissive. Thanks!

    Blubeagle May 17, 2025 2:56 am
    https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/make_a_pet_out_of_a_cactus/ para site

    I loved this.

    SoftPussyboy May 17, 2025 2:57 am
    Haven't gotten to the smut yet but this def gonna be the dynamic in the guild mate next door Spirit

    Ok! I got that in my list as well, I didn't expect it. Thank you!

    Spirit May 17, 2025 3:00 am
    Ok! I got that in my list as well, I didn't expect it. Thank you! SoftPussyboy

    Np! And regarding the hounds of sisyphus, submissive does apply to the top imo (let's just say he is very weak to any pleasure mc gives him...)

    SoftPussyboy May 17, 2025 3:02 am
    https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/make_a_pet_out_of_a_cactus/ para site

    Thank you! I wasn't aware of this one! (▰˘◡˘▰)

    SoftPussyboy May 17, 2025 3:06 am
    Np! And regarding the hounds of sisyphus, submissive does apply to the top imo (let's just say he is very weak to any pleasure mc gives him...) Spirit

    That sounds great! Thanks! I have been getting so many recommendations about it I have to just to start reading it (I was waiting to be completed).

SoftPussyboy May 13, 2025 5:40 pm

Do you have any strategies when you notice a story you are reading affects you negatively?

I came across a story. I liked the MC, but it's obviously just going to get worse and worse. It's not finished yet, and a part of me would like to just skim it all and just forget about it afterwards, but it will keep updating, and I will keep stumbling with it.

Do you have advice? Any strategy to disengage or set boundaries will be appreciated. Group therapy will be even better. Tell me who hurt you.

Thanks!!

*Actually, just writing this made me feel a bit better. So, thank you for reading.

    mili May 13, 2025 5:52 pm

    Lol, that's the power of self-disclosure :) I read because I enjoy it, I can read anything without being affected. But if it's boring, I have no problem dropping it. I'd suggest looking at those readings as opportunities to gain perspective, not as something you have to like or agree with. Just let it go and move on.

    ChunHuiji4 May 13, 2025 6:15 pm

    Honestly the best thing to do is to completely disengage with the material.
    Close the tab and do something else

    zach_af May 13, 2025 6:28 pm

    I’ll talk shit about how crappy the story has become in the comment section. Once I’ve vented all my frustrations, I’ll unsubscribe. If it keeps getting updated and shows up in every dimension, I'll just scroll past it. hehe

    SoftPussyboy May 13, 2025 7:31 pm
    I’ll talk shit about how crappy the story has become in the comment section. Once I’ve vented all my frustrations, I’ll unsubscribe. If it keeps getting updated and shows up in every dimension, I'll just ... zach_af

    Venting seems indeed like a good strategy, let all that trapped energy express itself out.
    Maybe next time it updates I'll be in a better place and I also just let it go.

    SoftPussyboy May 13, 2025 7:32 pm
    Honestly the best thing to do is to completely disengage with the material.Close the tab and do something else ChunHuiji4

    Currently doing something else!

    mafuyu May 13, 2025 7:59 pm

    when adding to a list you can uncheck the box to subscribe so you won't get updates for it in your notifs. helps when you want to have it marked as dropped w/o being reminded, and helps to disengage

    SoftPussyboy May 13, 2025 8:08 pm
    when adding to a list you can uncheck the box to subscribe so you won't get updates for it in your notifs. helps when you want to have it marked as dropped w/o being reminded, and helps to disengage mafuyu

    I'm not subscribe to it, and it is not in my lists either. It just appears around and jump scares me.
    Wouldn't be great if there was a block option.

SoftPussyboy May 9, 2025 5:45 pm

Hello everyone!
Do you have any recommendations of a story with a big, hunky seme with a petite soft uke?
If the seme is a green flag you get extra good vibes from me! that can be exchange the next time something good happens to you! You find a dollar in the ground? well, that was the result of the good vibes I'm sending you!
Triple the vibes if the seme is protective, shy, submissive or a puppy!

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