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Like what the hell is wrong with you people? Sexuality is a spectrum, why do you insist that everything has to be some sort of straight line. There are people who are only attracted to just one person of the same sex you know?! People like that exist. My husband was straight and I personally think he technically still is. Even though we're married, I wouldn't exactly go around calling him 'gay' since it's not as if he's just suddenly attracted to guys now, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Maybe some people just don't like to be labeled? Maybe some people are having a hard time understanding themselves and are confused? You're so stuck-up and insensitive that you think you can speak for their experiences? Can. You. Not. right now.
these fujoshis claim they support LGBT rights but are quick to bash a character that is on the homosexuality spectrum LMFAO
Preach! Like seriously some of these people piss me off so much. My husband at one point was so confused and he didn't understand what he was since he was attracted to me but not guys in general and he was just really having a hard time and then there's some people who are trying to speak for his experiences. It really makes my blood boil. So insensitive.
most people that read BL are young little girls who get their rocks off reading two boys kiss so they're pretty ignorant. plus BL is mostly created for sexualization, not LGBT representation but either way its still fucked up
This. It’s quite irritating at times, tbh. They claim to be pro LGBTQA+, but apparently know nothing about sexuality and gender. Then when someone from the + community corrects them on something, they flip their shit. But I understand most of them are kids (who aren’t mature enough to even be reading most of the stuff on here).
I couldn't agree more, which is why Here u are is such a gem in BL. Not only does Dkun show YuYang as openly gay and being completely honest with himself but also the harsh reality of his family life now he shows that Lihuan is the spectrum. Dkun has really outdone himself with Here u are
You couldn’t have said it any better my dear :) Djun is a KING!
I don't believe sexuality is a spectrum but I do believe that in uncommon cases you can fall in love with the same gender if you've been traditionally heterosexual.
I mean, at the end of the day we're all entitled to our own opinions and people are entitled to disagree with them.
If you just force everyone to share the same views then that's literal fascism.
This is why identity politics is toxic.
Fascism is a political system and has nothing to do with opinions. And I think you might be confused about what identity politics is...
That aside, sexuality IS a spectrum (a non-binary one). That’s not an opinion. We know there are at least several main orientations/attraction categories, with each category having variations. We also know gender is a construct, which is one of the reasons attraction is so complex. If you want to believe otherwise, you are of course free to do so. Just know your beliefs are not in line with the research or with reality.
You tell me to do research but it honestly just sounds like to me that you've never stepped in a biology class in your entire life.
Gender is NOT a social construct, and the evidence is entirely clear on that one due to the fact that women are biologically weaker than men and have brains that are wired differently to men. And the fact that transgender feel like that are for example a man living with a woman's brain, literally runs off the basis that there is such thing as a woman's brain, so I hate to say but the majority of transsexuals don't actually believe in the gender spectrum, only a small but vocal minority do. Transgenders suffer from gender disphoria which is both a psychological AND biological disorder which is why they can't be cured by therapy and have to get gender reassignment done.
Although, if you were to say that gender stereotypes affect the way someone grows up in a particular way, then I would agree with you on a minor level. But it is not a spectrum. Some of these genders are called smth like Astralgender where you feel like your gender is connected to the stars. And sorry, but if you identify as that I'm never going to talk to you again. Gender and sex ARE NOT different to each other. These aren't genders. They're your personality. These are made by 14 year old girls on tumblr who have never suffered anything real in their lives, trying to find something to make them an "oppressed class" so they can feel morally superior when they tell people otherwise. So when I say it's your opinion. I am correct. It's YOUR opinion gender is a spectrum, and you can do you. But don't you dare force this toxic ideology onto me.
Also the patriarchy doesn't exist.
I can’t count how many strawman arguments you set up there or the number of contradictions you’ve stated, but I won’t bother. You seem ill informed about the matter and not willing to do anything about it, so...cheers, I guess.
I would very much like for you to point them out so I can grow on my opinions and how "informed" I am. Having a different opinion doesn't mean I'm stupid, I'm literally a college student studying sciences. I can't really acknowledge your point if you dont pick put my fallacies, but if you dont care enough to that's your decision.
I'm looking for a manga about clones. Uke woke up and was told that we was a clone of seme's dead lover or smth and seme is very cod towards him but it turns out seme was the clone and uke was the real person who tried to commit suicide and lost his memories. Would really appreciate help :)
I think it's void(zariya)
Aaaah i remember thisss....but i dont remember if it was a whole series or one of the oneshots in multiple stories *will try to look for it
Nvm found it...pretty sure its this??
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/soine_lovers/uu/tr_chapter-5/pg-1/
Unfortunately not that one :( ty anyways!
oh god oh god this is it! thank youuu!! Makes sense why I couldn't find it since it wasn't a standalone haha, thank you so much!!
Haha Np it seemed soo familiar cause i just reread soine lovers ..and yeah its pretty tough finding oneshots from mangas with multiple stories.. glad i could help
Does anybody know this manga? I'm sorry if I'm getting things wrong, just going by memory hehe. It was about seme and uke working in a cafe/bar as waiters I think, seme was a part-timer who was being taught by uke. Uke was attracted to seme but didn't make moves on him, however, seme had to go back to Germany (not sure about this) already, so before he could go back uke invited seme to drink I think and when seme was drunk, uke tied and blindfolded him and raped him. In the end seme asked uke to go back to Germany with him. Thank you!
if I remember correctly, Uke blindfolded seme so that seme wouldn't see his face and he tried to make his moans in a higher pitch so seme wouldn't know it was him.
YESYESYEESS! This is it! Omg thank you so much!
I dunno why but I just really dislike that Ryu kid, I get that he's angry about the prejudice he's been receiving all his life from 'normal' people, but that's no reason to be prejudice yourself, that's so hypocritical.
prejudiced*
What annoys me about him is that how he's basically telling Kohei HOW to be Deaf, if that makes any sense. I get that Deaf culture is important, as is retaining it, but if Kohei ends up getting an implant, that won't make him any less a part of the community, nor will it make him forget his culture. Being a Deaf doesn't mean you can't interact with those who aren't. Ryu's acting like he's the ambassador of Deaf people or something. It low-key pisses me off. You don't get to tell someone how to be a part of your community if they're already a part of it.