I agree that ignorance is a sin, but we think of two different meanings. When I say ignorance I think of knowing something and ignoring it believing that you have no control over it. When they say ignorance they mean the lack of knowledge. To that I say how is she supposed to have known and changed anything. I understand how she has become a symbol of hate because of her background, but it infuriates me that she wasn’t a bad person but rather a sheltered one and she is being blamed by people because of those who were around her. I wish her nothing but a happy ending preferably without that mf who can’t seem to make up his mind and let her rest. At this point I’m even cheering for that old friend of hers to just take her away so that she can live a semi normal life
HE PISSES ME OFF LIKE BROOOOOO YOUR WIFEEEEEEEE COME ON DEFEND HER
I agree he's the emperor with no balls.
HOW IS SHE GONNA BE THAT MADDDDDD BRO HES BEEN TOLD YOU HE DOESNT WANNA TALK ABOUT IT He’s never been one to tell her how to deal with her family or business but she feels the need to tell him how fast he should’ve gone about telling her HIS SECRET??? Like brooooo come on. I get feeling betrayed, BUT HE LITERALLY SAID “my parents are dead and I have siblings but they are dead to me” that’s all you really need to know. If your partner doesn’t associate with his family that doesn’t mean for you to go prying. I just think she’s not used to not having the upper hand and having what she planned to not go her way. I’ll be back when this dumbass argument is over
I'm 100% with her on this lol. She's being like that because of their respective positions. You're treating it as if she's not about to be forced to take on a position with huge amounts of responsibility that she never wanted just because of his family situation. She's been saying the South is everything to her and she doesn't want to leave, but now she finds out that he's the crown prince and being married to him makes her the crown princess now. From her perspective, if his position doesn't change, then she is going to become Empress and will have to leave the South. His unique family situation is precisely why he should have told her before she heard it from someone else. His relationship with his family doesn't mean shit in this situation, he's still the crown prince and that isn't a position that is easy to throw away because you don't want it. The proof is him still being crown prince even though he's been gone for so long.
The reason she waited for him to tell her is that she assumed, and trusted, that it wouldn't affect her life much even if she never found out. She assumed he was, at most, an estranged son of a high-ranking noble. A high-ranking noble wouldn't have the power to force him to come back with her to take over their house. That's a different story if he's the crown prince. Regardless of his wishes, if his father finds out where he is, he 100% has the power to order her to leave the South and come with him to the capital and act out her "duties" as crown princess. You don't get to keep something that life-altering a secret from your spouse. At the point where it's something that could alter the course of both of your lives, that secret is no longer "yours." To put it in modern terms, it's like they got married and he didn't mention that he's going to inherit his parent's massive debt when his parents die. In this case, the "debt" is the responsibility of ruling an entire god damn country.
Frankly, it shows a lack of trust and respect for her on his part. He should have trusted that she would be able to handle the information if he told her calmly himself before the whole thing blew up. If he had told her before he was found, they could have come up with countermeasures together to prevent him from being found at all. Even if he waited until after he was found to tell her, they still could have had time to talk things through and come up with countermeasures to prevent him from being forced to take on responsibilities as crown prince. But because he waited so long while being afraid of her reaction, it's probably too late to do anything to help the situation politically now.
Yes but you also need to understand that the length of their relationship is at a weird phase they’re married, but they have just known each other max 3-4 months maybe even 5 months. We have yet to know why he cut off his family, they might be married and he loves her and all that doesn’t mean you tell them your deepest darkest secrets/ traumas. I understand that it completely changes her life too, but did you think he thought it through, probably not because in his mind he thought of them as dead and probably didn’t know they would still consider him a crown prince after being gone for so long. Especially when he himself had renounced it multiple times, and no one else had reached out in those years. Frankly they both didn’t consider most things beforehand. Also the way she worded it makes me believe she was rather angrier at not knowing first before someone other than him told her than him being crown prince. Also the way her father words it is perfect, she had a planned idea of how her marriage would be and is upset at the change in plans because as we have heard multiple times throughout the story “she always gets what she wants” and this time it’s outta her control. I’m not saying her anger is all misplaced but I am saying it seems a bit dramatic to me, if you feel differently then that’s your opinion.
Plus she knows full well that he has secrets and she also has clues that those secrets might be directly related to his birth/family. I think she’s more angry at the way it was revealed to her, she wanted to know it in a situation where he willingly tells her everything but was revealed through someone she was annoyed that (Chloe). Another thing is she never hid that the reason she wanted to get married in the first place is directly related to her right to inheritance and her domain, yet his secrets is something that could greatly affect the very reason why she married him hastily. She has her secrets (reincarnated) but his secret is something can affect her and her life. It was dramatic but it is understandable. They even tricked her into an oath that risk her life (another variable that she can’t control)
That's a fair point about them not knowing each other for that long. I also agree that she's more angry about the fact that she had to hear it from someone else. I mean she also got to the point where she had basically figured it out on her own and started dropping hints to him to tell her so she could confirm her suspicions. She also knows that she's being a bit childish about snapping at him, but then she got upset again about him avoiding her. At this point she doesn't want the whole thing to blow over in like a day because then that would indicate to him that he doesn't need to feel guilty about keeping the information from her. I will still stand by how it shows a lack of respect for her on his part though. I mean, maybe it's just me, but if you really like someone you should feel okay trauma dumping to them (I get that some people have a hard time talking about it, but he doesn't seem like that), especially when it's something that can affect both of your lives so deeply.
Guys I can’t do it he infuriates me like I don’t much care for his redemption arch, a relationship based on lies is bound to crumble and if he had admitted fault and begged forgiveness when the FL found out I could get behind it but he didnt. He JUST KEPT BEING A DICK
REAL!!!
1) she is too fucking dense literally she always got herself in the worst situations that any normal partner would break up with someone over
2) wtf was the ending just give my boy Night a good ending bruh
3) WHYYYY IS SHE SO FUCKING WISHY WASHY LIKE BITCH PULL IT TOGETHER
Bro she's like 15 in high school
Like they’re NOT healthy for each other at all but shit if you wanna be with someone that dogged you be my guest
IF YOU FLAKE ON ME 2 TIMES YOURE OVER BUT 3 THATS DISRESPECTFUL SO HE BETTER SHOW UP
EXACTLYYY
Every hyped this garbage up like it was the cutest romantic story instead I got
A rape scene WHERE THE MC WAS MADE TO FEEL LIKE IT WAS OKAY
Multiple times the MC SAID NO and when his no wasn’t taken he just layed there given up and the other guy still went
The uncle was a bad person and so was the ML you can’t change my mind.
I hated how everyone kept pressuring him or guilting the MC into EVERYTHING
I wish he would’ve been more upset than just for a minute like bro he should’ve just left earlier
Agree with me or no this shit was a waste of time and space in my brain.
THIS!!! I DONT EVEN EANT MC AND ML TGT. I JUST WANNA MEET THE BROTHER AND HAVE MC AND HIS BROTHER LIVE IN PEACE. DEAR GOD
Personally, i love the toxic rival/torturer/obsessive to lovers trope but like
WHO LIED TO YOU ABOUT THIS BEING SWEET AND CUTE?!?! IM PRETTY SURE ONE OF THE TAGS IS PSYCHOLOGICAL, HOW DID THEY MISS THE BRIGHT RED FLAG?!?!
THEY KEPT SHOWING THAT ONE CHAPTER OF THEM AS KIDS AND I WAS LIKE OHHHH CUTE LIL CHILDHOOD LOVE STORY
THATS WHAT IM SAYING
Lmfaoo someone trolled the shit outta you
Read the tags
There is tag given or anyway you could have read the synopsis
If you came for sweet cliche bubbly romance you are at wrong place
Yeah I see that now but even the synopsis just says crazy guy he meets. I thought crazy like oh he’s controlling/yandere jealous. Also I usually look more towards the genres it falls under and it said nothing crazy
Literally
Why they have troll you like that dear
Reminds of the killing stalking trolling that happened in its prime