Elune's Topics (8)

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Well yes, but also no. Communication is key. If the only thing the man can say as an answer is "I'm sorry for upsetting you, but I don't know what I did wrong", then you know that either 1)you fucked up and didn't properly communicate your feelings and wishes, or 2)your man refuses to take your feelings and wishes seriously, despite you properly telling him. If it's number two, throw the man away. If it's number one, you need to stop bitching and explain what you didn't like, and WHY you didn't like it.

The man isn't going to know what your problem is, if you don't tell him the what and why. Men don't think like women. Maybe something is obviously wrong in your eyes, but not in his, then he won't know what he did.

Well that's true, you never see lesbians arguing as much as straight pairs, and that's because man tend to have lower emotional intelligence, basically they're dumb and you have to explain everything to them. I have female and male friends and just male friends act like complete assholes while not caring to notice what they're doing wrong

I think you meant to say that man are dumber and tend to act like assholes without a slightest care that they may be hurting you

Ouch, who hurt you?
Personally, I don't think that someone is dumb just for having a different set of priorities. You really can't expect someone to understand you, when their brain is wired differently and they have different life experience. They don't understand some things that are obvious to women, the same way women don't understand some things that are obvious to men.
Also, it's a gross overgeneralisation to say that all men are assholes and don't care. Some, yes. Just like some women.

Amen (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

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