She literally died countless times to praying mantis monsters and she's forced to relive that trauma just because a man couldn't deal with her being strong. If he's the male lead, I'll make a fanfic called "101 ways to kill that bastard of a man". IDC if she's a "monster", it's the fact she's still able to control herself that proves she'll do everything to not become one. What she needs is mental support, not torture.
Girl you told him to trust you and that you had built up resistance. IDGAF if he was "concerned" and "didn't want his sugar bear hurt" he only has himself to blame for doing something so fucking stupid.