I decided to start this cause of the kiss spoilers and was ready for the other family abusive and mental struggle stuff. But why did nobody ever post that Baekhee was fucking another guy??? That shit triggered me so bad bc I wasn't prepared. I get the reasons why he must've gotten into that "relationship" but it makes me feel sick. Now I'm scared to read more, are they still together when he and Il Woo kiss???
Bekhee and Go Gyeom do not have a romantic relationship; it is, rather, one of codependency. Bekhee isn't interested in him; she simply does whatever he says because she views him as her only escape—a lifeline she clings to in order to get out of Gicheon and avoid seeing her father. This story isn't focused solely on romance—it is far more complex than that. You should keep reading and let yourself get swept up in the narrative, rather than fixating solely on who Bekhee is or isn't with.
Where did I say that the story isn't complex? I already mentioned I understand the possible reasons why he made that choice. I also can fixate on what triggers me so I can decide whether I want to continue reading something or not. I do not do well with codependent relationships, especially ones involving lies (including cheating). And anyway, of course it DOES matter who he is or isn't with for the overall story or specific character developments. You can keep your condescending comment to yourself, though.
Thanks for the actual answer!! I see, so they're still technically together at that point. And yeah I understand that the circumstances aren't like a typical mutual, consenting relationship and even from the few chapters it looks like he's convinced himself that he likes that other guy as a defense mechanism.
I'll continue reading when I gather my resolve cause this is personally affecting me a lil too much on top of everything else that's happening in the story. Or maybe best to read once completed
He looks manipulate af and that's why I want to avoid reading this for the time being if he's gonna be one of the bigger complications in Baekhee's life. Particularly if they haven't broken it off clearly between them when he gets emotionally close to Il Woo romantically (not just as friends), which I assume is why they kiss. I can deal with reading of other problems and difficult situations, I'm just especially weak to handle this stuff when it's an ongoing story. Thanks for your response!
By saying "you shouldn't focus on who Bekhee is or isn't with," I meant that Bekhee isn't actually in a romantic relationship with the other guy. Technically, he convinced himself that he liked him because he viewed Go Gyeom as his only escape—the only person who understood his pain, and his only hope of getting away from Gicheon. There is no third party in this relationship; it has always been just Bekhee and Yang Ilwoo. Go Gyeom is merely a pest who wants to control and dominate every aspect of Bekhee, because he views him as his personal possession.
ofc!! im glad to help <3
if it makes it any better, im also sensitive to certain parts of the story that involve baekhee selling himself short, but i tend to skip those by just scrolling and it helps me to enjoy the story more. ofc i dont ignore it completely as it’s important to baekhee’s character as well as the story, but its better for my mental if i don’t physically see it
i do think it’s an amazing writing and one of my favorites, keeping up with upcoming chapters while it’s still being produced adds a form of enjoyment in my opinion! i even considered waiting till completion but just couldn’t bc it feels nice to watch the story grow along the way
lmk if you do decide to pick Yang Ilwoo and I back up!! you won’t regret it if you do <3
Are ppl in the comments genuinely fcking dumb as bricks?
In what world does it look like the guy is "desperate for sex" in that moment????? He's clearly being raped and he's most likely not reacting more strongly out of self-preservation/trauma. Who knows what horrendous shit was done to him in that damn cult and how it's conditioned him to behave in these situations???