I totally get where Garam comes from but I am with YJ for this. The dude did everything he knows for you to not experience the trauma you had before and even go as far as to offer hiding the relationship he is proud to have.
In the relationship he sacrifices he compromise. After a heated argument he apologize and communicates it out. But you being stuck on a sad bitch you are without doing any effort for compromise or doing something for your partner. Hell you don't even communicate and just left the house with your suitcase and everything. At this rate just break up with YJ.
He changed and loved you with everything he has and considers his every step in life with the though of you in it. But you did nothing but wallow on the things you can't move on from and push your ideals to him when you haven't given anything yet in the relationship. You are now selfish at this point. He deserves someone better. Even if he finds someone who is not really into publicizing relationship but atleast meets his efforts he would be much better off than that than you.
Completely agree with every word. G is being so mean and selfish. Idk how he can’t see that what he’s doing is toxic af just like his ex.
i get you too, however i think the problem mainly lies in jaehyuk not being able to understand why garam says what he's doing is wrong. they tried talking it out but in jh's pov, there's nothing wrong with what he's doing while garam sees his actions as self destructive
communicating is needed for them to work it out, but not at the immediate moment. as garam said in his note, they can communicate again when they take a little time off to calm down and reflect since jaehyuk is not seeing what garam is trying to tell what's wrong with his behavior. yes, it's okay to have a loving loyal partner, but it's another thing to destroy all your other relationships (e.g. job, friends, family), it's self destructive and one shouldn't do that if you are in a relationship, that's what garam wants jaehyuk to see. you should still have a life outside of your relationship, not tie yourself down to only that.
[ they are both neither wrong or right because their arguments are rooted in their beliefs and experiences hence why they don't see anything wrong with the decisions they're making, but what they both feel is valid. ]
also, jaehyuk doesn't yet comprehend how hard it is to be openly gay since it's only been a while since he came to terms with his sexuality, whereas garam already experienced what it's like (multiple times, with multiple relationships like his parents and previous love interest) to be ousted for his sexuality, it's valid for him to have doubts about the actions that jaehyuk has been taking.
BTW pls do not read this in a mean tone TvT I just want to share my thoughts with you seeing as we both have contrasting opinions. i don't have any bad intentions :3
I'm also kinda sad ppl are talking bad abt garam as someone who liked him from the start of the series and also as someone who faces the same problems as him
I love debating and personally didn’t read that in a mean tone you’re good!
And I see your point and agree they need to communicate a lot more. I like little man garam but I’m upset that he keeps running away instead of talking it through.
I like Garam and hate YJH to the bones. But that all switched with the current turn of events. Both of them are at fault but YJH is trying to work out their different perspectives without cutting off their partner.
I blew up cuz even though Garam said it on his note its obvious that his really doesn't intend to resolve the matter like what YJH caught him during the convo.
We all get Garam's trauma and YJH lack of experience in the dark reality of the LGBTQIA+ community. But he has been made aware of what Garam went through and is willing to face that burnt reaction from anyone that may know of his sexual orientation. He is an adult who can own up his decision/consequences, he knows that.
Garam does not trust the capabilities and the decision making of his partner that he does for himself. Like if he wants to work in a certain industry as long as it's not scam he can do whatever he wants he knows what he is doing. The thing about his parents, in this time in age if the parent has 0 respect of the decision making of their child much less harrass their partner and is being toxic it is natural now to cut off your relationship with your parents or family. We are past the age where just because they are family is you keep ties with them even though it's toxic.
Again both of them are adults who can think for themselves. And being in a relationship where instead of communicating when they took a breather after their heated argument and just ran away from home. Like as in packed all your stuff and get a whole new place for your stay. Is just ***. If they keep being like this might as well just break up cuz this relationship is getting not just unhealthy but toxic already.
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Side note thanks for your insight don't worry nothing is misunderstood. You are just simply stating the facts
Even if you have foresight there's only so much you can do against natural disaster. I just hope casualty would be less and not make him feel so bad about it you can't save everyone.
Obsessive Co depending relationship. No remorse on someone not planning to confess or have his feeling acknowledged. And creating a love triangle that will just go back to square one.
If feel your relationship is drifting away do something about your attitude first before blaming and using someone else as a pathetic excuse of your not so toxic relationship.
About the step brother I get the dilemma and he did have the right mindset not to act up on it. He let the MC decide his path, no control or manipulation so he can be the end game. So leave the poor man alone. He will grow up from his puppy love. He lacked the freedom and affection cuz of the way he and his father lived till now so meeting MC was a new feeling to him and he could finally embrace himself
I wished I never read this. I want to bleach my eyes.
I know it's a bit gruesome. But I think you should start running now fake saint. They won't just be satisfied in burning you at the stake. Worse they may tear of your limbs or skin you alive. You have massacred alot of people out of your delulu self righteousness.
I am a simp for his friend he looks so fine. Anyways now we know where our baby Suho inherited the infamous Lloyd face it was from his friend
Who the hell was cutting onions at this hour