Boi in skirt is best boy. All men should wear em, and I'll be a happy gal. =^=
Nobody's fetishizing. What are you talking about? I said that I like something and everyone's quick to talk. That's what's wrong with society now.
You people just always want something to talk about. Find someone else to complain to please, because your assuming rubbish and I said what I said. I AM attracted to gay men, it's a PREFERENCE not a fetish then. Like everyone else, I'm attracted to another person.
I don't use labels but ig if I had to I'm pansexual too. But gay isn't a gender lol. It's a sexuality. If ur also attracted to men just say men. Not gay men uk. It's just confusing otherwise and people r just bound to misunderstand u. This is the internet after all. So be prepared for people to have their own opinion or disagree with yours ig. Anyway sorry if I offended u coz it seemed like I did. I just wanted to clear up that u can just say men not gay men. Otherwise it seems like fetishization. Anyway good day
Before I go, what I mean is. Dating someone only because they're Asian/only dating Asians. *This was an ex not related to our conversation* Is not a preference. It's a fetish. Just like how only liking men becoz they're gay is also a fetish. If a straight man said he liked lesbain women. How would u feel? Gross? Me too. Just becoz the tables r turned doesn't mean anything less or more.
Again with the Asian thing *just an ex*
Only dating sum1 becoz they're Asian is a fetish. Not a preference. U can have a preference for people who r Asian but only dating Asians is a fetish. Anyway. Turn the tables around and this would be racist *mainly coz it can be if u turn down sum1 just becoz they r not white*
Dating sum1 only becoz they're white and turning down anyone who's not white. Do u get it now? *except the fact that white people aren't opressed. But now u can see that it's wrong to date people who r only a certain thing and turning down anyone else otherwise over and over again. Not giving them a chance*
My examples r pretty bad and I'm very bad at explaining. I just want to make sure u get where I'm coming from. Doing research or one google search can prb get u to understand wim
I'm18. And BELIEVE IT OR NOT, I am attracted to men, yes. Not straight men though. I've dated woman and nothing more, but I've always found myself attracted to homosexual men. I'm being honest and I'm not explaining this anymore. If you don't get it, you don't I'm not explaining this to a stranger that can't get over something that is bothering them. And I promise you, I'll never fetishize any race or gender. I wouldn't want someone fetishizing me in any sort of way either.
It's either you get it, or you don't.
Okay. Thank you for explaining. I somewhat understand but why gay men? Is my only question. Not men in general but gay men? Does it automatically make u suddenly feel attracted to them after you find out their sexuality?
U don't have to answer. I'm just confused. U seen nice but I seriously don't understand. Isn't it just objectifying them ? I can understand finding men attractive or being attractive to a man even tho he's gay and wouldn't want anything to do with u romantically lol. But why is it just a whole group of gay men as a whole? Isn't it just weird to be sexually attracted to someone who isn't sexually attracted to u? *not counting straight women*
Anyway I asked people online without using or sharing any username so ur completely fine. But I asked them if it was simply a "preference" or objectifying and fetishizing and all of the 4 people who answered immediately said it was a fetish and would make mlm uncomfortable. Which I agree. Sorry if this offends u but please don't use preference as an excuse for ur actions. And most of all just keep this fetish hidden for urself uk. Like if it not willing to get any form of help or willing to work on it. Please do not irl bother any mlm men. It makes a lot of us very uncomfortable
Please just keep it to urself. Sorry good day
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