Brooo my boyfriend is like the seme!! He's kinda crazy because he always wants to know who I'm with, where am i, what I am wearing going somewhere, who I'm sitting with, is it a girl or a boy. he want me to sit beside a girl always, he don't like others touching me. So this is normal???? Σ( ￣□￣||)
I would be happy if I am "u" having a possessive bf is a thing for us girlies who doesn't experienced "loved" but all I can say is it's okay if ur bf loves u like crazy like romantically, more than that having a jealous personality is also natural, bc we humans born this way, everyone has feelings, I think ur bf got nervous whenever ur not w him and he might think that u "cheated" on him so it's better if u build up w ur trust worthy w him so he won't get worried if u hang out w ur friends.
I would be happy if I am "u" having a possessive bf is a thing for us girlies who doesn't experienced "loved" but all I can say is it's okay if ur bf loves u like crazy like romantically, more than that having ... Iseya
Girl it’s not normal and ur prob too young if u think like that. To the op, it’s a toxic behavior Bc he doesn’t trust you. possessiveness isn’t love, Bc he doesn’t respect you to trust you on ur own. It’s cute reading occasionally but irl is a different story. It wears a person out.
But he has an Anxious Attachment Style, so I just thought its normal for him to be that way. And i am 22 years old now. I think he's always anxious when hes not with me. I don't really know how to deal with it, so I just try to understand him. But sometimes It's really taking a toll on me..
But he has an Anxious Attachment Style, so I just thought its normal for him to be that way. And i am 22 years old now. I think he's always anxious when hes not with me. I don't really know how to deal with it,... rianchan
I totally get that! My boyfriend also used to get really anxious as well as jealous and overbearing whatnot but it seriously took a toll on me and the relationship. Although he still has bad anxiety, good thing we talked about it and he is really working on it and giving me space over time. It’s great that you’re trying to understand your boyfriend but also make sure to set boundaries for yourself! Resentment can build up and become unhealthy as well
Girl it’s not normal and ur prob too young if u think like that. To the op, it’s a toxic behavior Bc he doesn’t trust you. possessiveness isn’t love, Bc he doesn’t respect you to trust you on ur own. ... potato
Wdym not normal every human being born this way isn't It? The jealous word I'm referring everyone has that. Also I'm not young
Girl it’s not normal and ur prob too young if u think like that. To the op, it’s a toxic behavior Bc he doesn’t trust you. possessiveness isn’t love, Bc he doesn’t respect you to trust you on ur own. ... potato
I just write a whole paragraph but I think mangago cutted it off....I'm just giving an advice that they should've fixed it since it's not normal if it's too much but having a possessive personality towards their lover is normal, being a crazy in love at least they don't cheat, but it's too much if they're too protective so it's better if they're fixed it since their bf got nervous/ anxious whenever their gf is not w them
Girl it’s not normal and ur prob too young if u think like that. To the op, it’s a toxic behavior Bc he doesn’t trust you. possessiveness isn’t love, Bc he doesn’t respect you to trust you on ur own. ... potato
Also it's hard to maintain a relationship if one of them has a "health issue" that's why I'm saying maybe they should fixed it or else the misunderstanding might get worse.
It’s “normal” in the way people are flawed - but it doesn’t excuse bad behavior. You’ll need to talk about it and set boundaries because this isn’t how people with healthy relationships behave - they’re very secure in their own thoughts and feelings and their partner’s thoughts and feelings. (The story is different because the main character has historically showed lots of confusing behavior, but I assume you’re not doing anything like that)
Ask him to think about ways he can feel less anxious. Both ways he can change (example: reminding himself to trust you) as well as ways you can change (example: letting him know of plans ahead of time). Different people navigate it in different ways - and it doesn’t hurt to get some couple’s therapy either if you have the means to do so ^^
Thank you so much everyone for the advice (●'◡'●)ﾉ I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, especially not with my friends, so you really helped me out. He don't want other people to know about our problem cause he believed that if we have problems we are the ones who should sort it out and fix it, but of course there are times that just me thinking for myself is not enough, I need someone to look at it in a different perspective. So thank you very much for that ヾ(☆▽☆) It really gave me a deeper understanding of our situation.
Thank you so much everyone for the advice (●'◡'●)ﾉ I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, especially not with my friends, so you really helped me out. He don't want other people to know a... rianchan
You know deep down that they will just get happy to hear about your sad life, or they will just take this as a spicy gossip
BRO I JUST SAW THE RAWS AND THEY ARE SO SWEETTTT!! (≧∀≦) ITS SO SWEET I GOT JEALOUS HUHUHU I HOPE I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AS SWEET AS TAEJUUU!! HE'S SO TOUCHYYY AND CUTEEE AAHHHHHHHH
Brooo my boyfriend is like the seme!! He's kinda crazy because he always wants to know who I'm with, where am i, what I am wearing going somewhere, who I'm sitting with, is it a girl or a boy. he want me to sit beside a girl always, he don't like others touching me. So this is normal???? Σ( ￣□￣||)
I would be happy if I am "u" having a possessive bf is a thing for us girlies who doesn't experienced "loved" but all I can say is it's okay if ur bf loves u like crazy like romantically, more than that having a jealous personality is also natural, bc we humans born this way, everyone has feelings, I think ur bf got nervous whenever ur not w him and he might think that u "cheated" on him so it's better if u build up w ur trust worthy w him so he won't get worried if u hang out w ur friends.
…absolutely not normal wtf
Girl it’s not normal and ur prob too young if u think like that. To the op, it’s a toxic behavior Bc he doesn’t trust you. possessiveness isn’t love, Bc he doesn’t respect you to trust you on ur own. It’s cute reading occasionally but irl is a different story. It wears a person out.
But he has an Anxious Attachment Style, so I just thought its normal for him to be that way. And i am 22 years old now. I think he's always anxious when hes not with me. I don't really know how to deal with it, so I just try to understand him. But sometimes It's really taking a toll on me..
I totally get that! My boyfriend also used to get really anxious as well as jealous and overbearing whatnot but it seriously took a toll on me and the relationship. Although he still has bad anxiety, good thing we talked about it and he is really working on it and giving me space over time. It’s great that you’re trying to understand your boyfriend but also make sure to set boundaries for yourself! Resentment can build up and become unhealthy as well
Wdym not normal every human being born this way isn't It? The jealous word I'm referring everyone has that. Also I'm not young
I just write a whole paragraph but I think mangago cutted it off....I'm just giving an advice that they should've fixed it since it's not normal if it's too much but having a possessive personality towards their lover is normal, being a crazy in love at least they don't cheat, but it's too much if they're too protective so it's better if they're fixed it since their bf got nervous/ anxious whenever their gf is not w them
Also it's hard to maintain a relationship if one of them has a "health issue" that's why I'm saying maybe they should fixed it or else the misunderstanding might get worse.
It’s “normal” in the way people are flawed - but it doesn’t excuse bad behavior. You’ll need to talk about it and set boundaries because this isn’t how people with healthy relationships behave - they’re very secure in their own thoughts and feelings and their partner’s thoughts and feelings. (The story is different because the main character has historically showed lots of confusing behavior, but I assume you’re not doing anything like that)
Ask him to think about ways he can feel less anxious. Both ways he can change (example: reminding himself to trust you) as well as ways you can change (example: letting him know of plans ahead of time). Different people navigate it in different ways - and it doesn’t hurt to get some couple’s therapy either if you have the means to do so ^^
Thank you so much everyone for the advice
(●'◡'●)ﾉ I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, especially not with my friends, so you really helped me out. He don't want other people to know about our problem cause he believed that if we have problems we are the ones who should sort it out and fix it, but of course there are times that just me thinking for myself is not enough, I need someone to look at it in a different perspective. So thank you very much for that ヾ(☆▽☆) It really gave me a deeper understanding of our situation.
Same my fiance is the same but it's kinda annoying to the point where I just want to leave
Wahhhhh I felt the same toooo sometimes, when I feel that they get overbearing
You know deep down that they will just get happy to hear about your sad life, or they will just take this as a spicy gossip