Just Me's Things

I looked in the mirror and tried to do the most basic of seduction moves (literally just licking my lips and shit) and my brain really said "ew"
#Forever Alone and Forever Thirsty

If someone misgendering you causes you to have a mental breakdown you need to go to therapy. Someone misgendering you doesn't mean that they need to start referring to everyone they meet as "they/ them"

Some people don't want to be called "they/them" and are comfortable enough in their own identity to be able to accept being called anything. If they are misgendered they will correct the person and that's all.

Dealing with your own trauma is hard but you still need to take care of that yourself. The people of this world are not here to make sure you never get hurt in your life, they are here to live. They want to live freely. They don't want to live attempting to account for the feelings of those that struggle to deal with their own emotions. Words offend people no matter how much you try and make it so that they do not. There is no "one-size-fits-all" solution to any problem. Someone will always be offended and to truly be "inclusive" is to understand that fact. I personally wouldn't like it if someone started calling me "they/them" and someone else would be delighted to be called "they/them". That solution has become a problem to me but it still makes someone else feel better. This is what I mean by there is someone who will always get offended by what you decide to do. Your solution may not have had the intentions of harming someone but regardless it still did and that is just how the world works.

It is inherently not inclusive to disregard the feelings of others in order to make yourself feel better. Let people say what they want. We as humans just need to do our best to not get so pressed over these things. There are way too many people in the world for everyone to be accounting for your feelings. What may make you feel better may make someone else feel like shit.

People need to realize that the root of their issues with others comes from within so the solutions to those problems also will naturally come from within. You can't expect random people that don't care about you to fix those problems for you. It is why when people experience trauma they go to therapy. If some guy molested you and you've developed a fear of men, you can't just kill all men. You have to deal with that trauma through therapy and other means. Solutions don't come from other people, they come from YOU.

By the way, I only used the misgendering scenario as an example because someone brought it up but really this applies to anything dealing with emotions.

If you know anything about anxiety then you know how crazy it feels to have an anxiety attack. To make a long story short I managed to convince myself that I potentially have a brain tumor and am going to die without even going to see a doctor first. I might as well have killed myself at that moment because boy was I feeling dead. Idk man, I suddenly couldn't breathe, couldn't swallow my spit, my throat was hurting, etc. I read that a symptom of brain tumors was not being able to swallow easily and for some reason, at that moment I couldn't do it. Well, while freaking out and parading around google for symptoms and shiz I tried to calm myself down and think about other things. I ended up searching for "symptoms of an anxiety attack" just to clarify. The symptoms checked out which wasn't shocking but along with the symptoms came a definition that stated: anxiety attack- when a person experiences physical and/or mental, stress due to the fear of an event that has a possibility of happening rather than immediate danger. (it was smth like that) But this definition magically made me calm the fuck down, I realized that nothing had even happened yet, hell I was more likely to die from the anxiety attack than from a brain tumor at that moment. So I chilled and came to the conclusion that even if I do have a brain tumor, not all of them are harmful and it's not like I'll just drop dead. Really this situation made me realize 3 things:
1. I need to go to the doctor because them symptoms were a lil too accurate to my current state
2. I need some therapy cause YEESH
3. I definitely have Hypochondriasis
TLDR: I almost suffocated myself because I thought I was going to die. This all happened in around 10 minutes while my teacher was lecturing us on drugs via zoom. Gotta go to the doctor because I might have a brain tumor :/

My family and I just had this debate and the opinion was split so I want to know the opinions of other people. I personally believe that even if the majority believe someone is beautiful not EVERYONE can have the same opinion.

Mine has to be highschool DXD. Yes, it is porn but that porn does have a plot, and I mean both kinds, P.L.O.T and plot.