For the life of me, I cannot remember what this yaoi was called and my memory is vague but basically it's two idols of some sort who find bl about them and get so turned on by it that they literally start doing it with each other from all the tension XD please help
Lmao, nevermind, I found it! https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oretachi_namamono_desu/
I'll take most BL recommendations (with healthy relationships) as long as they don't have dubcon/noncon. If you recommend any sadder yaoi, please warn me in advance, I am very sensitive ;-;.
Also, I recently read Big and Beautiful but dropped it for the time being, are there any other stories similar to it?
Shounen-ai ones
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/young_lad_s_wool_shop/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/men_s_wear_store/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/guang_xiang/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/beauty_and_the_brawn/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_story_about_you_x_me/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dream_away/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_b/
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1109388/ - here's a list, hope u can find something :)
Healthy things please, I've been wanting to find some hurt/comfort but not sure where to find many.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/how_to_chase_an_alpha/
it’s my favorite healthy yaoi !!
enjoy (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
For healthy relationships I think this one would be the king
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/boku_no_omawarisan/
This one couldn't be cuter
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mother_s_spirit/
This one is also pretty good, the uke has some insecurities, but they are super cute
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_ga_ochitara/
In this one there is a bit more hardship (not too much) and the uke starts with some trauma, but I think they also have a pretty healthy relationship
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/konomi_ja_naka_to/
I started reading more BL with BDSM (more soft ones than anything too hardcore) and was wondering if there recommendations for healthy BLs with it? I'm kinda new to it and the only one I've read was Kabukichou Bad Trip.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hidamari_ga_kikoeru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/eyes_speak_more_love_than_the_mouth/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hidamari_no_orange/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ashita_wa_ieru_kana/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/until_i_meet_my_husband/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/senshun_kansoku/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yankee_no_kareshi_ga_dekiru_made/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/snail_pond_robber/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koimonogatari/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_ni_wa_todokanai/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bokura_no_shokutaku/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ganbare_nakamura_kun/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_wa_natsu_no_naka/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/unintentional_love_story/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/vampire_library/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_b/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/park_hanhoo_s_manager/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/guardian_with_benefits/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_shoulder_to_cry_on/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dasadanan/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/criminal_interview/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/daniel_s_extremely_private_villain/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/unluckily_lucky/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tu_quoque/
Omegaverse or not is good, adoption or their own. I'm irritated rn and need some wholesome stories where the relationship doesn't make me wanna throw something at a wall.
Here’s BL with babies of all kinds: https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1008397/
I especially rec these for extremely soft, stress free relationships:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koisuru_barairo_tenchou/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oh_my_hero/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bokura_no_shokutaku/
A few months back I read a manwha/manga that was either a yaoi or shounen ai about a really shy boy who would feed a cat and a guy saw him and thought he was hurting it and got mad at him. The boy started working at the guy's cafe and got his hair cut later. The guy starts to like the boy kinda gradually and from what I remember there seems to be someone following/stalking the boy. I know this isn't a lot of info to go by but this is all I could remember about it ┗( T﹏T )┛
1. Any bl manga where the mc and ml are already together or
2. bl mangas with longer stories about the main couple (more than 5-7 chapters, maybe 2 volumes?)
For 1 here’s some http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/437555/Established+Relationship/
Kuroneko Kareshi Series
Kokoro - Kanda Neko
Theraphy Game
Sayonara Game & Change World
Between the Sheets & Blue Moon (if i'm not mistaken of the title of the volume 2)
Love Nest and Love Nest 2
Love is an Illusion
Painter of the Night (at the beginning there's no steamy scene between the main couple but on the middle part, there's a lot(≧∀≦))
Tadaima, Okaeri
BL Motel
Ookami-kun was Kowakunai
Ookami-kun wa Hanasanai
Thoroughbred wa Nabikanai
Thoroughbred wa Yuruganai (ongoing)
Boku no Danna-sama
Kiraide Isasete
Kedamono Arashi Series
Boku no Omawari-san (still ongoing but it's been a long time since this was updated. Still, its a funny read)
Urisen Boy to Koisuru
Sahara no Kuro Washi
Black Eagle in the Sahara: Alkil's Story
Under my Skin (I'm not sure if there is a volume 2 cause its still ongoing and currently in chapter 6.6 but I guarantee you that this is an AWESOME read)
Oreshika Shiranai Karada (same author as Under my Skin)
These are some of my recommendations and all of them are some of my many favorites(≧∀≦), though i know there are still a lot of bl mangas out there that matches your interest. I have been reading BL for last few years ago and started again on quarantine period until now. i am currently looking for what to read since i have read so many already hahahahah
Hope you will like it.

It was about a gangster type guy who comes back to an island he lived on as a child, at an orphanage. He runs into his childhood friend who he finds out is selling his body to keep the orphanage running and helps him.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/syunrai_to_mitsu/
This might be it(?)
Yup!! Tysm!