I read this a few months ago. It’s a yaoi manga where there are two couples. The first couple are both office workers(I think salaryman) and the uke is the senpai who is trying to train the newbie. The second couple is the uke’s friend who has permed curly hair(also the uke) and a sloppy guy that doesn’t work at the office. I really enjoyed the second couple and I could tell while reading it that it was an older manga but now I’ve lost it and I really want to read it again. ╥﹏╥
Is anyone else noticing the growth of the yaoi anime genre? In just two years we got shows like Banana Fish, Dakeretai, and now Given. I remember when yaoi anime used to be just porn and now they’re becoming real stories with actually gay characters and interesting plots to go with it(side note: Saezuru Tori Wa Habatakenai is getting a movie this winter and I’m so excited!!!!!)
You do know that banana fish is a manga released in 1985, right? I don't watch yaoi anime but I do understand what you mean. Compared to older works, a bunch of bl mangas nowadays are getting less cliche or they play around the old stereotypical plot. I hope they get more and more progressive in the coming years. Nothing too outrageous, just less rape and more sweet fluff.

Does the attraction go away when you’re in a relationship? I’m about to go on a date with a man in a few days but I’ve been finding women more and more attractive recently. I have little to no dating experience so I’m worried if going into a relationship is “depriving” myself or that other part. How do you handle this in relationships?
It can, yes. Especially over time. Some couples settle into a comfortable relationship without sex for one reason or another , but each has their own circumstances and choices If you find that there's no connection, no problem! Just move along! You don't need to be in a relationship with anyone, male or female, unless you're ready.