I really, really am getting more and more intolerant with authors who write about things without ever doing proper research. It may be can be excused in old mangas, because of the censoring and insufficient access to information about sexuality in asia, but we can see that with the art becoming more and more explicit, they have more freedom apparently. So this to me is just half assed. I don't mind them kind of working on the 'wrongness' of a bdsm influenced relationship within the story itself, but nope. I don't think this will happen in this story. The art is gorgeous, but the characters seem so euh...shallow? Like actors where you can tell they are acting and not living the characters. It is a difference. This to me looks like fictive characters playing a role haha....but yeah, this not bdsm. Has only some inspiration from it, but nothing more. It is actually a pretty manipulative kind of relationship. A weakminded and bored person being persuaded by a perverted kind of narcissistic person...it is nice for a quick read to kind of have something to do, but nothing to be taken seriously or leave a huge impression or whatever...i guess....i hope one day manga authors will start to do a little research for their plots, that will be deserving for their beautiful artistic talents....and make readers go nuts all over the world...
I mean. Do not missunderstand, I do still read yaoi, even if the plotline seems super unrealistic, as long as at least their reactions and stuff seems human. But still, I could not resist this one. You opperate your own business and are self employed. But you, without any resistance, give in because someone took a video of you touching your crotch. You could call the police on him and force them to look into his phone and delete the picture or you. It is a serious crime, if someone takes pictures that reveal your identity without your consent. Especially such promiscuous ones. I could may be understand if he were a naive kid at school, with already bad reputation being psychologically weak to such threats, but duh....there are measures to resist and work against something as measily as that. Especially if you have your business and yourself to protect....
but yeah, the art is nice and stuff so let's say it is some nicey micey porn
You know, every human is born as an individual. And as such, we are connected with everyone and everything. Even isolated humans, cannot be spared from this reality. So that is why we reap what we sow. Everything comes back at us. So sure, if someone hurts other people while only seeking their selfish satisfaction, they deserve to live their karma. But that is up to them and the people around them. If a person, because of various reasons revolving around their free will (being willless can also be a form of free will you know), to sleep with people without care just to satisfy their bodily desires ( like eating and drinking), then why are people condemning it? If I weren`t raised like I was and not self aware because of my life experience of my desire to have an emotional bond and me actually being a person who only gets truly aroused and lost in pleasure with another human when their intellect is attractive apart from their looks etc., then I would sure also be curious and having fun tasting different men and may be even woman, because I love life, I love pleasure and I love to satisfy my curiousity. But I am not doing the latter, because of mentioned reasons. Sure I find humans who are uncaring about others and who are not self aware fucking annoying. But why would you call them whores immediately? A whore is someone who says they are one. It is a profession of sorts. It just became a curse word to demote a person enjoying physical pleasures outside of monogamy. I find that kinda immature....I mean..does it hurt you if someone who is not you does what they want with their own body?
Wait. I agree with what you said and I'm just gonna say PREACH
But what triggered you lol? Are you talking about the first story with the uke or the last story with the sweet shop special
If you're talking about the first story can you please explain what you mean exactly ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Like, which part of the story are you talking about?
It was, because people were looking down on the character, because he was so free spirited and sexually open minded. I understand, that people have their own values and views about sexuality and how they want to go on about it and their life. But in the same way, others do as well. I could never just have sex to take care of my desire like this without an emotional bond and a steady partner that I love. But at the same time, I understand why people actually would. But nonetheless, it annoys me how people treat others who live their life the way they want (without harming anyone), as if they were no humans and as if they have a right to critize them. Like who are you bruh? Who do you think you are to evaluate someone else? Wtf...
Ah
Unfortunately that's the sad reality we live in
Ryou has anxiety, but he is actually a straightforward person. So when he is just saying things as he sees them, it seems like he is flirting I guess. I also get Natsume, for being troubled by it. Haha. My open minded friendliness that came out more the more I tried to overcome my nervousness when being in new situations and with people, also made some people mistake it for things that were not my intention. It confused me so much. Like dude, why do you think it is flirting or scheming, when someone is just being honest? haha...it shows how twisted the world is :D
That is exactly what's true for me, too. And I never exactly thought I'd come to a full realisation about this, but yes, the way you verbalised it is very true.
Yep. Way too many people don't bother asking in order to confirm their assumptions, and just go on assuming and/or blaming you for their own one-sided assumptions... It's so exhausting whenever you see allegedly "confident" people neglecting to make even a 10% of the effort you're putting, in trying to get along.
true! it's kinda hard for me to read the atmosphere too, and i just say whatever i feel at that moment. T-T
I am so confused right now. i hope the author will do something at least later, but this shit is right now destroying the story for me. 3.2...i guess some of you already read it and know. the fuck? that is still not how americans greet each other. only family if they are the kind who was raised like this. and couples. but no one else does this kind of stuff normally. not america. not europe. and he is not angry? i mean he could be all grown up thinking there must be a reason. but even the most logical people should feel dissappointed, because jin should have avoided that and reprimanded his friend for it. he has a fucking partner. he is standing right behind you and you are super nonchalant about a french kiss from a guy who declares war to your boyfried. the fuck? and hanamura is pouting but not mentioning that fact? are guys really a couple? man this annoyed me so much.... i am a logical person, but loyalty has it´s rules and if they are not kept then the rules that make two a couple are broken thus the couple is not a real couple anymore....but a toxic/broken one