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Everyone in the comment section is (understandably) super sympathetic and understanding towards Utou but I don’t understand why so many people can’t extend the same sympathy towards Sumi? The comments towards Sumi are starting to get nicer but I still saw several ppl hating on him and some even saying everything is Sumi’s fault and he deserved everything that happened to him. Sumi was literally violently gang raped as a teen. Are people really so desensitized to rape omegaverse (and yaoi in general) that they can’t comprehend the amount of lifelong trauma it causes for victims?

All omegas are severely oppressed, but it’s even worse for Sumi since suppressants don’t work well for him. Sumi has the threat of rape hanging over him every time he’s in heat in public until he can find an Alpha to bond with. Plus bonding with an alpha will also put an end to being whored out by his boss. Even if you don’t agree with his decision, I think it’s understandable why Sumi chose to bond with the other alpha to end this torment, especially since he thought Utou didn’t return his feelings at the time. There’s SO much at stake for Sumi being in an beta/omega relationship, but now that he knows Utou truly loves him, Sumi is willing to fight for their relationship. I know heartbreak and the feeling of inferiority at losing out to Alphas must be really tough to deal with for Utou and I honestly also feel really bad for him. But comments saying Sumi, a victim of rape, deserves the pain/molestation/a tragic ending are honestly pretty insensitive. I love and feel for both Sumi and Utou and I hope they both find a happy future together.

Still thinking Utou is the most pitiful? Think again.

I really don't understand the people who "I hate Sumi, you shitty omega!! I really hope Utou and Sumi don't end up together!!!"
First of all, if you hate the omega so much, drop this manga because it's clear we will have a happy ending with Utou and Sumi, so stop reading it otherwise it would only bother you that they end up together!
However, I come in peace, I don't want to impose my opinion, I just want to reason together, even if I know that there will be someone who will hate me...
I don't take the side of either of them. I think both of Utou and Sumi have done something wrong in this situation and obviously there was no communication between them.
I don't want to justify Sumi with what I'm going to say, but this hate towards Sumi is really excessive!
I'd like to mention that it was Utou who first started their "relationship" without even explanations; then he ended up saying that he would never touch him again and Sumi probably thought Utou didn't want help him anymore.

What did Sumi do to be hated so much?
Let's put aside his personality, a bit tsundere, not too likeable, which you may like or not, I understand this point. Sumi fell in love with Utou and confessed his feelings, but Utou had not yet realized how he felt about Sumi, he didn't say anything, he didn't even give him an answer (!). For Sumi it was a rejection and also a confirmation of his fear, the fact he was a replacement in Utou's heart. Try to immagine: the person you love rejects you and in your workplace you are like a replacement, would you be happy? Uhm...
It seems that no one is comprehensive towards him.
He has a bad family situation, he needs money, his heat can't be stopped with suppressors and this constantly puts him in danger. I think Sumi couldn't afford to be weak in this whole situation, which is why he is arrogant at first, because he literally didn't have anyone. And in this shitty situation ONE person helped him (Utou) but then he turned away without explaining and also "rejecting" him.

Returning to the present, the bond with Shiratori was indeed a mistake, made by the impulsiveness of the moment, because he was broken, he had nothing, not even the person he loves. For this shit, he decided to mate with the first person who was kind to him and helped him. Yes, Sumi made this mistake, mostly because Shiratori is really a asshole and he has only a grudge against Utou, but what would you have done in Sumi's place? I would like you all try to put yourself in his shoes.
Yes, that last sentence was deadly, Sumi shouldn't have said it and it'is obvious he regrets so much the pair with Shiratori, that bastard.
"Sumi is hurting Utou" ... but sorry, do you think Sumi didn't suffer?!
You all only know how to say "I hate Sumi" "I don't want them together" or "at this point I don't mind if they don't end together", just because you don't like his character. And you pretend not to see the shit Sumi is going through.
Utou is really one of the best characters of all time, I love him too, he doesn't deserve to suffer, but neither does Sumi.

Now I'd like to know your point of view, with a valid explanation because I can't accept these sentences without reason.