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jimenaF October 2, 2015 6:26 am

So guys, i wanna ask your advice. I used to go out with a couple of guys who are a couple (weird, i know) but the three of us had a lot of fun and they were totally ok with our situacion. They are a couple and i was like their sex friend.. more girlfriend actually but whatever. Anyway, one of them got more romantic and clingy with me and the other guy got jealous, so i broke up with them, I'll rather have them both as my friends that one as my boyfriend and the other one as an enemy or something.
The guy who got really jealous knew why I broke things up and was pretty thankful.
So everything was ok until a week or 2 ago when they told me that they want to go out with me again. I mean, i like them and care about them but i dont wanna make things weird again and ended out losing them as friends. What you think? I know is a weird situation.

    Justkindaannoyed October 2, 2015 6:37 am

    One, this kinda sounds like April from Parks and Recreation...Two, I would talk to the jealous guy and find out his thoughts and then if the clingy guy acts like that again create some distance between you guys.

    jimenaF October 2, 2015 6:50 am
    One, this kinda sounds like April from Parks and Recreation...Two, I would talk to the jealous guy and find out his thoughts and then if the clingy guy acts like that again create some distance between you guys... @Justkindaannoyed

    haha..I know is weird but i'm pansexual and don't really do the whole monogamous thing so for me is not really that strange. But you're right, i think i'll should talk to them, the problem is that i'm scared of him agreeing just to please his boyfriend.

    LevixEren October 2, 2015 10:22 am

    In my opinion I suggest not. Because the guy whol likes the other guy, will, someday, if not now, will start to get jealous again and things will go bad again. I mean. Not going out. Maybe just casual friend or sex friend. But no string attach. Really? When guy who crush to other guy get jealous, they usually feel more. My friend used to be like that. And comforting them was like hell hard. So my suggestion is keep casual friend but no going outm because you care for both of them :)

    jimenaF October 3, 2015 4:03 am
    In my opinion I suggest not. Because the guy whol likes the other guy, will, someday, if not now, will start to get jealous again and things will go bad again. I mean. Not going out. Maybe just casual friend or... LevixEren

    yeah i mean obviously i care about them, they're my friends. I guess I just need to have an adult conversation with each one separately and ask them what they really want. Like i say, i much rather have them as my friends that to lose them.
    If the three of us are in the same page (which i doubt it) we can see where we go from there but if we dont then i wont get between them.
    Thanks.

jimenaF July 8, 2015 2:53 am

help. i don't remember the name of a manga where 2 friends reunited after years and the uke ask the seme if he can stay on the seme house and act like his boyfriend until the seme gets marry.and when the seme fall in love with the uke this tell him that it was a lie and ask him money, in the end they end up together

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