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I think that they mean the dominant and submissive when they refer to top/bottom.

These labels are common in fiction - yaoi and yuri - but it doesn’t work like that in reality. Most lesbians don’t follow a role, they are versatile I would say. And when it comes to gay men, it’s kinda the same, a majority is switch.

I kinda thought so. The majority of real people I see using the term seem young and likely inexperienced

Top and bottom refer to whoever is giving pleasure and receiving it, it’s not about dom/sub as you can have a sub top or a dom bottom

Not that I think of but I was told that I was homophobic when I said not to assume my faves' sexuality
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yeah my friends usually say that actually lol
i told them i read BL and stuff and one of them was too disgusted by that.idk
and then she was like
"was i being homophobic?" the answer is yes.

ALSO
there's no such thing as "too sensitive"
harmful comments are bad and shouldn't be existed. don't feel bad for other people's harmful attitude, they're dumb and stupid and maybe don't deserve love.

My mum once said when she had short hair (it was the style at the time) she wore a lot of makeup to avoid looking like a lesbian and I thought to myself “so you think looking like a lesbian is bad and lesbians never wear makeup” which was a bit much from such a small comment.