ok so i said this in response to one of the comments but i should let others know too ;;
in my case ur prob spot on about my being repulsed by people in general lmao (childhood trauma tingz) when people ask me out i just kinda go,, why would u do this. but also i might be biased bcs i'm on the aro/ace spectrum so idk about others ╮(￣▽￣)╭...... reply
