I’m both so sad and frustrated at Woojin (MC). He is hard wired to accept abuse and his trauma forces him into a self sabotaging cycle of only accepting abusive relationships and situations. He believes he is only deserving of this bc of his innate fear of being alone and abandoned. AT THE SAME TIME, Woojin is still at fault for his own actions - of the hurt he caused to both himself and, especially, on others. Traumatized people always hurt (purposely or not) the people around them if they’re not actively working on healing from their trauma.
c.73. breaks my heart for Woojin bc his first introduction to “romantic” love and sexual relations is literally just more trauma. I hate his first bf and I’m saying that with my WHOLE CHEST.
I agree with you, and I don't get why woojin was agreeing to be in relationship with his first bf. I mean, woojin doesn't love him, and he knows the fact that his first bf only after his body
I’m both so sad and frustrated at Woojin (MC). He is hard wired to accept abuse and his trauma forces him into a self sabotaging cycle of only accepting abusive relationships and situations. He believes he is only deserving of this bc of his innate fear of being alone and abandoned. AT THE SAME TIME, Woojin is still at fault for his own actions - of the hurt he caused to both himself and, especially, on others.
Traumatized people always hurt (purposely or not) the people around them if they’re not actively working on healing from their trauma.
c.73. breaks my heart for Woojin bc his first introduction to “romantic” love and sexual relations is literally just more trauma. I hate his first bf and I’m saying that with my WHOLE CHEST.
I agree with you, and I don't get why woojin was agreeing to be in relationship with his first bf. I mean, woojin doesn't love him, and he knows the fact that his first bf only after his body