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Joy Dancer April 11, 2020 7:14 pm

For me it's not even close. I think either way would be nice but I'm okay with my life as it is because yaoi is safe and always there and is a huge source of pleasure, excitement, and happiness. <3

    cheesecake is fucking delish April 11, 2020 7:26 pm

    that sounds unhealthy ngl

    Lovely Angel 15 April 11, 2020 7:29 pm

    Umm, I am not sure how to respond to that. Yaoi and other things are just fun hobbies. A hobby should never be more important than a person, especially if they are your significant other or family. I like reading all kinds of comics, being an otaku is a part of who I am but I would never feel like it is more important than my girlfriend. Hobbies are supposed to make us happy and entertained so of course life is better with it. But it shouldn't go to a point where you feel like it's more important than people in your life, except if the people 'important' to you are jerks who don't respect your lifestyle and privacy. ( ̄∇ ̄")

    SharkVice April 11, 2020 7:31 pm

    That just means your boyfriend is not that important to you. If objects out-weight your relationship with someone then that person isn't worth much to you.

    LadyLag April 11, 2020 7:40 pm

    Everyone is different, and we all perceive reality depending on our experiences.
    Your boyfirend doesn't have to be your top priority in life but if your not 100% comortable with your partner maybe it's time for you to be single for a while.
    It's better being alone than being with an unsatisfactory partner/friends.
    Wish you the best.

    Mayumi April 11, 2020 8:25 pm

    ...I'm not a relationship expert or anything but are you okay with your boyfriend? I mean, I'm not interested in being a relationship right now so I'd probably feel like you are if I were you. Maybe you need to double check your relationship with him before it gets complicated. Good luck (▰˘◡˘▰)

    SharkVice April 14, 2020 6:23 pm

    Just to add to the other replies, you should always be your #1 person. It shouldn't be your boyfriend/partner/friend/parent/spouse/etc. Having your partner as your #1 person leads to unhealthy dependent relationships where you're giving and giving and not getting anything back. However, an object being more important than your relationship with a person is something you should reflect on.

Joy Dancer October 12, 2018 7:27 pm

Who else on here is vegan? I'd love to hear about you! And/or foods you eat. :) Thank you! <3

    NekoNani October 12, 2018 8:31 pm

    Not vegan but pescatarian

    Anonymous October 12, 2018 8:55 pm

    Not vegan but vegetarian. Funny story about y I’m a vegetarian tho. I was just to lazy to say I hate some meats and decided to just not eat any lol (=・ω・=)

    Anonymous October 12, 2018 11:07 pm

    Vegan + Honey
    Honestly, just about everything. Lentils for your base protein, tofu and other soy-based products from time to time (not a big fan), shitton of vegetables as a base and fruits in between as a snack.

    I eat very simple, though. My favorite dinner is mashed potatoes with carrot and green peas. That should say a lot, lol.

    Also I stick with honey only for tea + ginger + honey + lemon combo. Great for autumn colds and well, not much else. I use date syrup as a regular sweetener.

    Joy Dancer October 13, 2018 7:24 pm
    Not vegan but vegetarian. Funny story about y I’m a vegetarian tho. I was just to lazy to say I hate some meats and decided to just not eat any lol (=・ω・=) @Anonymous

    Hilarious! That's perfect. :)

    Joy Dancer October 13, 2018 7:25 pm
    Vegan + HoneyHonestly, just about everything. Lentils for your base protein, tofu and other soy-based products from time to time (not a big fan), shitton of vegetables as a base and fruits in between as a snack... @Anonymous

    Thank you!!! I'm drooling. :)

    Joy Dancer October 13, 2018 7:26 pm
    Not vegan but pescatarian NekoNani

    :)!

    Joy Dancer October 13, 2018 7:36 pm

    My favorite foods change but most often they're peanut butter, popcorn, bread, jam, beans, corn, fruit, nuts, brussels sprouts, pasta, and hot spices like chipotle powder. Oh! And I love mustard and ketchup. It's how I get vegetables down. Wait, how could I forget - pumpkin! Bliss. And coffee, and chocolate, and nice cream.

    3BLOOM July 2, 2020 7:37 am
    My favorite foods change but most often they're peanut butter, popcorn, bread, jam, beans, corn, fruit, nuts, brussels sprouts, pasta, and hot spices like chipotle powder. Oh! And I love mustard and ketchup. ... Joy Dancer

    I really like bread with veganaise, miso, onions, and tomato, fried polenta is also really good. lately I've been really into putting smoked paprika on anything, including buttered toast. It gives a really unique flavor. I also recently discovered a yellow coconut oil which is flavored really yummy and much healthier than earth balance: https://www.iherb.com/pr/Nutiva-Organic-Coconut-Oil-Butter-Flavor-14-fl-oz-414-ml/68678?gclid=CjwKCAjwi_b3BRAGEiwAemPNU6olOYoloYhcDCXWLhHhCiD5fdNvLGBmnUoN0lNja_B2OLrrTOJZnhoCXGwQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
    ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    Joy Dancer July 3, 2020 1:32 am
    I really like bread with veganaise, miso, onions, and tomato, fried polenta is also really good. lately I've been really into putting smoked paprika on anything, including buttered toast. It gives a really uniq... 3BLOOM

    That all sounds so good! Thanks for sharing. :) <3

Joy Dancer May 4, 2018 9:08 pm

Mine are Ghost Hunt - 1 volume Really got me - and The 1980 version of The Changeling, it's not an anime but Ahh! I also loved the Ring, and Shutter. Creepy!

    Pacgirl May 4, 2018 9:26 pm

    Eyyyy Mines Ghost Hunt too. I watched the anime and read the manga later. The doll episode really got me.
    "The Boy" movie also got me.

    Blubeagle May 5, 2018 2:18 am

    I'm a diehard Higurashi no Naku Koro Ni girl. There's one scene that is in the series that traumatized me for life. Cannot watch that episode of the anime.

    Blubeagle May 5, 2018 2:19 am

    For movie? Noroi the Curse.

    Joy Dancer May 6, 2018 12:21 am
    Eyyyy Mines Ghost Hunt too. I watched the anime and read the manga later. The doll episode really got me. "The Boy" movie also got me. Pacgirl

    That got me, too!!! And dolls Often do. Movies, stories, just hearing about places with lots of them. Some dolls I do find pretty or interesting though.

    Joy Dancer May 6, 2018 12:23 am
    I'm a diehard Higurashi no Naku Koro Ni girl. There's one scene that is in the series that traumatized me for life. Cannot watch that episode of the anime. Blubeagle

    Thanks for the idea!!! <3

    Joy Dancer May 6, 2018 12:24 am
    For movie? Noroi the Curse. Blubeagle

    Thank you so much!!! It looks really good. I loves those kinds of movies. <3

    Blubeagle May 6, 2018 12:27 am
    Thanks for the idea!!! <3 Joy Dancer

    It's an awesome series. My ultimate favorite is the visual novel, but the mangas and animes are great too...most details in the visual novel, great in your face mangas and the music is sublime. Highly recommended. My favorite series.

    Blubeagle May 6, 2018 12:29 am
    Thank you so much!!! It looks really good. I loves those kinds of movies. <3 Joy Dancer

    Noroi the Curse is genuinely creepy.

Joy Dancer September 27, 2016 9:57 pm

I'm ready. I'd love to hear about ANY thing that helped you, or if you're still going through this.

    Long time ago... September 27, 2016 11:28 pm

    Honestly I was lucky and me and my "ex" separated on really good terms (actually still loved each other) but I think that's why it was still so painful. So get some good crying in, sleep a bit, call up a friend and go out for some fun. And if you don't want to be around people just go try something new by yourself. Distractions can be so helpful as a cheering up method. Like I cut my hair the shortest it had ever been because my boyfriend loved long hair and to move on I wanted it short.
    Ps- icecream is LITERALLY the best answer if all else fails

    Anonymous September 27, 2016 11:30 pm

    Got a new boyfriend asap ;)

    vampra September 27, 2016 11:42 pm

    im still not over him and its been 3 years
    ive heard getting ya self a rebound bf works

    Jay September 27, 2016 11:56 pm

    Just be happy being single, learn to love yourself and perhaps come to terms that both of you weren't meant to be.. sorry if my approach to the situation seems cold but i'm just a realistic kinda person and not romanfic at all hehe..

    Anonymous September 27, 2016 11:58 pm
    im still not over him and its been 3 years ive heard getting ya self a rebound bf works vampra

    rebound? no dude,find another move on start a new

    Joy Dancer September 28, 2016 1:28 am
    Honestly I was lucky and me and my "ex" separated on really good terms (actually still loved each other) but I think that's why it was still so painful. So get some good crying in, sleep a bit, call up a friend... @Long time ago...

    These are all such good ideas! Thank you for helping me. :)

    Joy Dancer September 28, 2016 1:32 am
    Just be happy being single, learn to love yourself and perhaps come to terms that both of you weren't meant to be.. sorry if my approach to the situation seems cold but i'm just a realistic kinda person and no... Jay

    I love this response, this is what's helped me most too. I know I'm happier without him. I'm also doing a lot more things I care about than when we were together. Thank you, Jay.

    Joy Dancer September 28, 2016 1:35 am
    im still not over him and its been 3 years ive heard getting ya self a rebound bf works vampra

    Mine's been two years. I tried some rebound boyfriends. I actually didn't miss him until now, and know I don't really miss him. Not that I'd mind having him back, I'd like it in a way, but I like this a lot.

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