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I hope it's Heesu

Nah heesu needs to go

It's probably him but i hope not because i feel like there is a backstory of why he s so messed up , obviously that doesn't excuse his actions but well .

Oh and personally i hate the shape shifter tiger guy more cause i know he cares about him but then he goes and rapes him like that , that pissed me even more than heesu cause we know from the beginning he's a bitch

The Brother

Maybe reread the last chapters and you will see.
He didnt fuck him right after,did you read the little bubbles with words? He held back,ngl he risked his life to save him and is doing all he can, as much as he can
He isnt a therapist,he is there for him tho

Wow he's such a good person because he held back , it's like the bare minimum that he could do , in fact he shouldn't be touching him in a sexual way at all even if he begged him to cause that's the proper way to treat someone who just got raped darling

yea cause he isn't. he's not 'completely' any different from them, he has shown red flags in his behaviors in the first place.

but imo it's unfair of you to just put a character in a box and close the discussion deciding what things are. it's a waste just setting things as black and white but go off ig

Actually tho I wish it didn't lead to sex either considering what happened. He did handle it the right way for what was going on. This man has been raped continuously by two different guy he didn't approve of never said yes ever to their advances for years. But with Yona it's clearly different HE MADE THE CHOICE. He chose him he chosen to have sex and instead of treating him the way all the others have he gave him the one thing he's never experienced before that sex is not only enjoyable but fun. Yona reassured him that even though he's been defiled inside and out that he's still as attractive as he always has been. Unlike the others that treated him like nothing but a common whore. So yeah again I agree that it leading to sex sucks after what he went through Yona has always given him what the others haven't a CHOICE. And I think that's the point with Yona consent exists pleasure exists love exists that's the difference.

And i get your point completely, but the sex after being raped isnt the only thing that was bothering me , it's just the whole idea that oh he s nice to him oh he s adorable oh he's harmless doesn't change the fact that he too wanted his body since he was young and it's just a personal opinion that to me he doesn't look any different from all the guys who wanted to fuck him even if he's nice or whatever.

And if i was in a simular situation as him where i rescued someone who was abused and saw the evidence of it on them i would literally feel sick and wouldnt even dare to touch them inappropriately not get horny from seing his literal hole all freaking swollen to the extent of pain from all the rape . It just proves to me even more that he sees him as a body not a person

I mean I get that but he was a kid do teenagers think about anything but sex really at that age? the whole hormones going wild and all that jazz but even then he never did anything without his consent which is why chang doesn't push him away like the other or isn't disgusted by his touch. But no same I I was also in this situation I would handle it differently, but Yona refusing him in that moment could have also been bad for chang who knows know how to make use of his body he doesn't understand that it's possible for someone to want and care for all of him and if Yona said no and pushed him away even for his own food chang might have taken that as complete rejection thinking it was cause he was dirty and unwanted. Some people who are sexually abused end up that way I'm not saying sleeping with them is the right answer lol but with how Chang is with himself it could have ended badly idk but I get where ur coming from

It's just why should consent be a mesure for someone being good or not that's like the bare minimum, and yes teenagers are horny and all wich proves it more how yona isn't really suited for chang il to heal from being constantly sexualized , he's thinking with his hormones and dick and chang il is surrounded by people who think with their dicks so he won't help him break through that barrier of being seen as a sexual being. And again about the sex after the rape , i get what you mean chang il was feeling down about being rejected for sex but not because he wanted to do it i mean who in there right mind wants to have a big dick in a hole that's painfully swollen , he insisted on having sex because he felt that now he was dirty and unworthy, and wanted the reassurance through sex that he wasn't, and to me that definetly does not look like someone who was feeling sensual and wanted to have sex , that looks like a rape victime going through a breakdown . Am not saying yona is a bad person no he's far from a bad person , he's just not the right person for someone who should be healing from sexual trauma that's all.

Am not shutting him off out of all the shity people on this lanhwa he's the one i like most , am just giving my opinion about it , and i hope than in the future he'll grow out of hos teenager horny faze lol

Oh it doesn't you can be big on consent in some ways and still murder people I just mean for a guy that never got a say even with clients cause at the end of the day he needed money to survive but he said it himself he hated all of this he didn't want it but he did it cause he could survive finally choosing this for himself is a big thing. But with Yona he is still a kid I think he's taken a step in that direction tho he's definitely more mature now than he was when they first met, but the place they are staying in isn't his he has no money or really anything that's his so that's proof he's still a child, but child or not he's still done more for chang than anyone else so far. Tho shits definitely about to go down again and I don't think Yona can save him from it ╥﹏╥

I kinda get your point , i have this feeling that yona isn't as harmless as he seems but in a good way , i feel like his dad has some connections or he's a gangster cause aint no way he's that skilled at tracking people and getting past a house full of gangsters just with some luck , hopefully my hunch is correct cause if not then baby chang il has no way out

Right they need some kinda backing to get this mob psycho away from him （/TДT)/

He wasnt just raped,he has been in the industry for so long and has been through that over and over again.
The one time he wants it,its not okay? He needed it, sex when its with someone u want is okay.
He wanted it,he needed to do it gor whatever reasons he felt. Its not to cure his trauma,Yona isnt a therapist.
He saved him and was there for him as he needed.

Now demonise sex all you want,what happened between them wasnt rape. Sex isnt evil, its people who are evil.

Changil needs help and Yona can do as much as he can.

Also he repented for paying for him,he just wanted to help him out. He saw that he was like the others who treated him like a sex toy. He wouldnt touch him if Changil didnt want it.
Complicate it all you want,he cares for him and for more than sex.

Wow you just cant grasp how trauma works. Or how the body works. So if Changil felt pleasure when he was raped, than he liked it?
You cant just grasp the whole picture? Yona wasnt horny for him when he saw his raped. He was cause he finds him beautiful and he wanted to show him that.
Do u even read the dialogues? The small boxes with words?

He was careful with him,not to call him dirty like Changil feared,not to hurt him.
Maybe you should listen to what changil fears and feels rather than assuming.

Honey i think it's you who doesn't know how trauma works and it's also you who doesn't read the texts in the bubles . Honestly am done with this comment lol feel free to think however you want i explained my point of view plenty. I suggest you re-read the last chapter and focus on chang il's point of view . There is an instance where he says something along the lines of " my whole is puffy and it hurts but i feel like i need to pay him back for saving me " wich to as an adult doesn't seem like consent . Moreover rape victims do indeed feel most of the time dirty because they were used and ask any therapist if having sex with a rape victim to prove to him he is beautiful and isn't dirty like you said they ll call you immoral and stupid . And if you read the chapter well (lol) you'll notice there is a line where yona says " i didnt want to be like all the bad guys who used you but i couldn't hold myself back" so clearly he knows he did something wrong . And how in the hell was yon not horny when he was freaking hard lol at least make sense lol. But well you do you sweets

Worse than that !! Oh my
I need Recommendation lol

You sure about that?? I recommend going to mmr if you want some fucked up ones

Omg that's awful why would u recommend that i definitely won't check it out right now

Yaoi, but the time has nit come yet ㅠㅠ

Yao I, they have sex scenes later on

Uhum...thanks it was for a friend

Then tell your friend that there are sex scenes later on ヾ(☆▽☆)