I think I’m might be byesexual but I’m not sure and I can’t test it out. Does anybody have any idea on how I can figure it out. Please help . Or share your story
hm, ive always questioned my sexuality until i realized it was a waste of time. just go with the flow; most definitely saves you all the time of stressing. you're sexuality doesn't define you, you define yourself. you can be bisexual but only be sexually attracted to women and only romantically attracted to men vice versa. but in the end it doesn't matter you love who you love. (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Realised I was bi when my eyes followed cute girls with the same attraction as when cute guys walk by, truly realised when I fell in love w a female friend
Since u can’t test it my advice is don’t worry too much about trying to label things just do what makes you happy, but it’s always helpful to do research. Though I still don’t know a hundred percent that I’m bi, I’ve had crushes on guys and girls, so that’s basically how I know. And if ur not sure coz u like one more than the other that’s still bi, that’s something that tripped me up myself so yeh. That’s all from me ig <3
It doesn't matter, it's just a label. Before the 19th century, hetero/homo/bi-sexual wasn't even used as a way to think about identity. So you don't háve to define yourself as anything if it stresses you out. The only use of labels is that it makes communication easier and you can find likeminded people quicker. Some people also get comforted by the thought of being able to define themselves. There are no rules for it. If you think you're able to like girls and boys, then you can already call yourself bisexual if you want that. You don't even have to like boys and girls equally or both sexually/romantically. If you're not sure about who you feel attracted to or what attraction actually is, then just leave it be for now. There is no rush.
When I was younger, I was afraid to call myself a lesbian. In my mind, non-heterosexuality was always linked with oppression and sadness and wanting to be straight, so the fact that I wanted to volúntary identify as a lesbian (I was sure I was attracted to women, but I hadn't been in love) made me feel like an imposter and like I didn't have the right to claim the label. Now older, and a gender historian, I've just realised it all really doesn't matter that much.
That being said, all this is linked to privilige though. Not everyone can think about this so freely. There are countries where openly identifying as certain things can have terrible consequences so me saying all this is also only because I grew up in a place with 'good' LGBT-rights. (Which does not mean I haven't been discriminated, because people will judge everywhere.)
I think I’m might be byesexual but I’m not sure and I can’t test it out. Does anybody have any idea on how I can figure it out. Please help . Or share your story
hm, ive always questioned my sexuality until i realized it was a waste of time. just go with the flow; most definitely saves you all the time of stressing. you're sexuality doesn't define you, you define yourself. you can be bisexual but only be sexually attracted to women and only romantically attracted to men vice versa. but in the end it doesn't matter you love who you love. (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Realised I was bi when my eyes followed cute girls with the same attraction as when cute guys walk by, truly realised when I fell in love w a female friend
Since u can’t test it my advice is don’t worry too much about trying to label things just do what makes you happy, but it’s always helpful to do research. Though I still don’t know a hundred percent that I’m bi, I’ve had crushes on guys and girls, so that’s basically how I know. And if ur not sure coz u like one more than the other that’s still bi, that’s something that tripped me up myself so yeh. That’s all from me ig <3
It doesn't matter, it's just a label. Before the 19th century, hetero/homo/bi-sexual wasn't even used as a way to think about identity. So you don't háve to define yourself as anything if it stresses you out. The only use of labels is that it makes communication easier and you can find likeminded people quicker. Some people also get comforted by the thought of being able to define themselves.
There are no rules for it. If you think you're able to like girls and boys, then you can already call yourself bisexual if you want that. You don't even have to like boys and girls equally or both sexually/romantically. If you're not sure about who you feel attracted to or what attraction actually is, then just leave it be for now. There is no rush.
When I was younger, I was afraid to call myself a lesbian. In my mind, non-heterosexuality was always linked with oppression and sadness and wanting to be straight, so the fact that I wanted to volúntary identify as a lesbian (I was sure I was attracted to women, but I hadn't been in love) made me feel like an imposter and like I didn't have the right to claim the label. Now older, and a gender historian, I've just realised it all really doesn't matter that much.
That being said, all this is linked to privilige though. Not everyone can think about this so freely. There are countries where openly identifying as certain things can have terrible consequences so me saying all this is also only because I grew up in a place with 'good' LGBT-rights. (Which does not mean I haven't been discriminated, because people will judge everywhere.)