you don't like to make assumptions? Because you made a pretty big one with your "question" which was clearly meant to be rhetorical based on the ellipsis and emoji use. It's nice you know how to gaslight and backpedal. It's also sad that you somehow think that proper consent isn't part of a relationship. Consent can be very sexy and romantic. It's why people yell "yes" during particularly good sex. I will ask my own little question. In the exact same way you did. Try to not let it hurt your feelings, because if it does, that's you admitting that it isn't just a question. ... have you ever been in a relationship where both people were happy?
you don't like to make assumptions? Because you made a pretty big one with your "question" which was clearly meant to be rhetorical based on the ellipsis and emoji use. It's nice you know how to gaslight and ba... Melliloy
Lmao I'm laughing at your responses. You go crush them queen. And I agree, we love consent. Always always ask for the consent...and most importantly, wait for it to be given!
you don't like to make assumptions? Because you made a pretty big one with your "question" which was clearly meant to be rhetorical based on the ellipsis and emoji use. It's nice you know how to gaslight and ba... Melliloy
No, I was genuinely wondering because your comment seemed so ridiculous I wanted to know what you were basing it off of :) My emoji use was simply my physical reaction to your comment, which I found to be an overreaction, personally.
Please don’t make the assumption that I don’t think consent should be in a relationship, that’s just putting words in my mouth. I suggest refraining from personal attacks as well, logical fallacies can make even the best argument seem pathetic :) I also don’t engage in interactions with people who commit them as it is simply frustrating.
Consent is of course, very important and sexy. However, in the specific situation in question, I don’t think either were in doubt of what the other wanted. Rather, it can be helpful to have someone who is able to read what you want even if you don’t say it. I would prefer consent, but in that specific context, I don’t think it was an absolute necessity, nor do I think the lack of warranted your berating. That’s my opinion at least.
To answer your question, my relationships have always been healthy and happy. Communication and respect are what I value the most after all. :)
No, I was genuinely wondering because your comment seemed so ridiculous I wanted to know what you were basing it off of :) My emoji use was simply my physical reaction to your comment, which I found to be an ov... reconnect
You insinuated that anyone who has actually kissed another person should understand that you don't have to wait for an answer when asking for consent. I'm pretty sure no amount of backpedaling you're doing here is going to change how anyone views that initial response of yours, especially when you backed that insinuation up with the following comment stating that I must have used technology to birth children, because anyone who thinks waiting for consent is proper couldn't possibly have a relationship. That very clearly indicates that you do not care if your partner consents properly as long as you thought they did or should have. I also was not berating, Berating is angry. I didn't have any anger, I was lamenting that it would have been so easy to add in proper consenting actions, but yet another story has ignored that. There was no anger in that comment. You're projecting. "Communication and respect are what I value most" but you don't think communicating consent before kissing is important. You have a lot of cognitive dissonance in your comments here.
You insinuated that anyone who has actually kissed another person should understand that you don't have to wait for an answer when asking for consent. I'm pretty sure no amount of backpedaling you're doing here... Melliloy
remembers to ask for consent, forgets to wait for her answer. We were so close to actual consensual contact.
… have you ever kissed anyone?
I have birthed two children. What do you think?
Well technology is incredible these days…
I don’t like to make assumptions, that’s why I asked.
you don't like to make assumptions? Because you made a pretty big one with your "question" which was clearly meant to be rhetorical based on the ellipsis and emoji use. It's nice you know how to gaslight and backpedal. It's also sad that you somehow think that proper consent isn't part of a relationship. Consent can be very sexy and romantic. It's why people yell "yes" during particularly good sex. I will ask my own little question. In the exact same way you did. Try to not let it hurt your feelings, because if it does, that's you admitting that it isn't just a question. ... have you ever been in a relationship where both people were happy?
Lmao I'm laughing at your responses. You go crush them queen. And I agree, we love consent. Always always ask for the consent...and most importantly, wait for it to be given!
No, I was genuinely wondering because your comment seemed so ridiculous I wanted to know what you were basing it off of :) My emoji use was simply my physical reaction to your comment, which I found to be an overreaction, personally.
Please don’t make the assumption that I don’t think consent should be in a relationship, that’s just putting words in my mouth. I suggest refraining from personal attacks as well, logical fallacies can make even the best argument seem pathetic :) I also don’t engage in interactions with people who commit them as it is simply frustrating.
Consent is of course, very important and sexy. However, in the specific situation in question, I don’t think either were in doubt of what the other wanted. Rather, it can be helpful to have someone who is able to read what you want even if you don’t say it. I would prefer consent, but in that specific context, I don’t think it was an absolute necessity, nor do I think the lack of warranted your berating. That’s my opinion at least.
To answer your question, my relationships have always been healthy and happy. Communication and respect are what I value the most after all. :)
You insinuated that anyone who has actually kissed another person should understand that you don't have to wait for an answer when asking for consent. I'm pretty sure no amount of backpedaling you're doing here is going to change how anyone views that initial response of yours, especially when you backed that insinuation up with the following comment stating that I must have used technology to birth children, because anyone who thinks waiting for consent is proper couldn't possibly have a relationship. That very clearly indicates that you do not care if your partner consents properly as long as you thought they did or should have. I also was not berating, Berating is angry. I didn't have any anger, I was lamenting that it would have been so easy to add in proper consenting actions, but yet another story has ignored that. There was no anger in that comment. You're projecting. "Communication and respect are what I value most" but you don't think communicating consent before kissing is important. You have a lot of cognitive dissonance in your comments here.
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