I need that big idiot to learn what consent is. "Why won't you open your heart to me?" Bc you are constantly ignoring his boundaries and wellbeing for your own desires!!! Youre repeatedly abusing his trust and see nothing wrong with it!!! The audacity to assume that by tomorrow everything will be normal again. That dumbass needs to understand that he is at fault that his lover is spiraling , throwing Up and self harming rn
He is abusive, but tbh he doesn't know any of that bc his partner never told him. And don't get me wrong, he DOES need to learn to respect boundaries and treat his partner better, but he didn't know what he went through bc he didn't want to tell him. Is not his fault what's happening to his partner, its a reaction to a trauma and he is reacting to his trauma, blaming the guy for a trauma he didn't create is not fair when he is actually unaware of said trauma, from his perspective probably his boyfriend doesn't want to be with him anymore and he is trying to find out if they can go back to normal soon.
No, thats not a valid reason at all. Like when they started having sex the big guy had his hands zied and the black haired one wanted to fuck himself with a toy. The fact that they big guy took Off the restraints and fucks the other guy are all Things He did ouf of selfishness without asking the other guy If he's okay with it and without even giving him the opportunity to give his consent bc he restraints his arms and his mouth is gagged and he is turned away from him. As soon as he is able to the black haired guy tells him to wait, slow down and to stop and tries to physically push the big guy away, while crying and the big guy still continues to rape him. Trauma or no trauma, the big guy raped him and the other guy is allowed to be mad for more than a day. The big guy only thinks about himself when He just saw the other guy self harm. Instead of "are you okay? Do you need space after I forced myself on you?" he thinks things like "i hope he stops sulking by tomorrow" and hugs him. He hugs him even tho he can see that the other guy literally is cocooned into a blanket bc he does not want to be touched. Whether he knows about former trauma or not, when someone tells you to stop and physically tries to get away from you that should be more than enough to stop and afterwards be just a little empathetic to your "lover" and not just think about yourself
Tldr: He did tell him to stop and the big guy kept going. He is not just reacting to old trauma, he is reacting to new trauma too and that new trauma is the big guy actively and repeatedly raping him. That is 100% the big guys fault. From the big guys perspective he just raped his partner and wonders why the partner is not happy about that.











720000 won is closer to 530 USD but it still seems a bit much, maybe there's a zero too much ?