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funny thought

didnt really liked your comment so i apologized for the whack reply... gotta say i dont agree with everything u said well garam is clearly afraid of confrontation and i dont think what they need to talk to each other is a SIMPLE thing to garam/queer ppl given what garam experienced back then AND you said it, jaehyuk did a 180 after all those bullshit which makes their relationship fast and difficult to navigate atm-

sure, garam is the one who needs to open up the convo but i do think jaehyuk is moving too fast given the history of their relationship.

jaehyuk grew up highkey spoiled. garam experienced a shit ton of things as a gay man. good for jaehyuk that you think he's trying too much and good for jaehyuk for thinking it is so easy to just be out like that but take into consideration what garam experienced.

your opinion came off very jaehyuk centered as if we're not reading the same manhwa and remember the shit ton of things garam endured.

the only thing i agreed with is they both need to communicate but give garam TIME. they need this cool off. :)

uhhhhh yeah thats like the whole thing. garam had dealt with a lot. like- a lot. but surprise! someone who doesnt understand a situation isnt ever going to unless its explained to them. how is he supposed to know what garams feeling without garam telling him? he cant read his mind

like take an actual relationship for example. your partner is pissed. you dont know why. each time you try to figure out the problem they stomp off and refuse to talk to you. all youre going to be is lost, confused and anything you do to fix it is going to be a shot in the dark and might even make things worse. the only way to fix things is if they sit you down and open up to you about the problem. communicate with you. talk to you so you do understand whats going on and can be sympathetic and do right by them.

garam is refusing to give jaehyuk that chance. jaehyuk grew up rich and spoiled and doesnt know these things. hes just happy to be with someone he loves. hes ignorant. how is he supposed to learn without garam giving him that chance? how is he supposed to know all the issues if garam doesnt talk to him about them?

like ive had friends who didnt understand a lot about queer history and why theres certain fears. so, ive taken the time to educate and theyre a lot more mindful after that. you cant tell me jaehyuk doesnt love garam enough to not learn, understand and respect boundaries if given the opportunity to do so.

also "jaehyuk did worse so garam can do whatever" isnt rlly right? jaehyuk has done a lot in apology and making it up to garam. thats been over and done with. if a relationship is about "getting back at each other" erm you dont need to be dating if learning to love and forgive isnt something you can do. not that he should put up with bullshit, but he made that super clear already in the chasing arc he wouldnt.

garam is the one refusing to give jaehyuk a chance in the terms of trusting or honesty. and jaehyuk cannot learn to do right by garam if he isnt given the chance.

also i dont think they need this to cool off. if you said "lets talk more later when we're both calmer" and your partner just up and moved out while you werent home without telling you literally anything. you cant tell me youd come home and be all good with that and be like "yes! this is just the thing we needed!" youd just think that your partner doesnt love you anymore

all those words but my certain thought flew over your head lol

nope, they need to cool this off. unfortunately, they need that drama to get shit sorted out. some people are complex and they can be difficult. sure they can just sort things out but given the history of their relationship. its bound to happen :)

also stop quoting "jaehyuk did worse so garam can do whatever" as if i said that. that shitty narrative didnt even came up on me. the shit ton of things garam endured is not only about jaehyuk... hello??? its very frustrating but garam has reasons why he acts so fearful everytime that it kinda looks like he dont love jaehyuk the same.

all those words and my point isnt clicking with you at alllll just say youve never been in a healthy relationship and move on atp im just convinced youve gotta be like in middle school with no life experience

gotta say getting called a middle schooler with no life experience is the worst drag ive seen

based off how this originally ended when it was a short story, i really doubt he'll choose only one. one of the rare gems that's a proper 3some!