To be so honest and fair, it took me a bit to come to terms with the fact that the ml and mc are both insufferable. Yun oh can’t keep acting like he’s a 15 year old kid having a fit every time he fails to regulate his emotions and if Haewon wasn’t mentally so codependent and reliant on him, there genuinely would be no one to take that nonsense from him. leave for 2 weeks at a time and see who cares. You’re both adults. This goes past YunOh having long term feelings for Haewon , it’s about self respect, if you don’t like the situationship you’re in, make a genuine effort to pull away and give distance, have a conversation and stand firm. Haewon needs to mentally let him go because that’s a whole other problem in itself. Nothing will change if nothing changes
Reading this I agree, at first I only saw faults in yun oh cuz his are more prominent and we follow his pov most of the time but hyung also has a part in the problem , although i do know that he’s js ignorant cuz he doesn’t know cuz fuckass wont tell him whats bothering him and instead making us all suffer but i found myself js now on chap 39 thinking haewon should js go fck taeha js to see yun oh suffer cuz im so sick of his annoying ass
And I think Yun-oh should be the one to go and fuck someone else just to make Haewon suffer. Bro has no emotional intelligence and keeps telling himself "I’m doing everything he wants, why is he not happy" because Haewon’s not making him feel secure enough and only agreed to date him cuz he has daddy issues or abandonment issues or whatever. That dude clearly doesn’t reciprocate Yun-oh’s feelings and yet is playing with his feelings just for Yun-oh to not move out like what ??
Everyone saying jaekang is pissing them off needs to go reflect because if it was a woman, y’all would not be saying all thatthis is highkey harassment, I think anyone would be (and should be) rightfully pissed off if the owners son kept staring, calling them a bastard and getting mad and pissy cuz you won’t agree to their conditions when they’re the one BEGGING you to sleep with them. The MC is a narcissist simply and needs to travel somewhere and look for some meaningful relationships cuz long term this is just sad
Y’all talking about social disorders like it does anything. It’s explains why he did it but doesn’t excuse anything, our guy deserves to feel hurt and mind you, your social disorder guy hasnt apologized once in the past 3 chapters
Uke:
“EVEN IF I HAD TOLD YOU ALL THIS EARLIER, YOU WOULD'VE GOTTEN ANGRY AT ME”
I DIDN'T THINK THAT BRINGING SOMETHING SO CONTROVERSIAL UP
WOULD BE GOOD
FOR US.
AS LONG AS I STAYED QUIET, YOU NEVER WOULDVE KNOWN
...NOTHING GOOD WOULD'VE COME FROM TELLING YOU”
Like that is a grown up man who knows what is right & wrong. He chose to hide it because he knew that he was in the wrong, so some social disorder cannot excuse this out. He had WHOLE 2 weeks to apologise, to beg him, to go after the ML but he chose not to & even after this to give what A duckinh CARD??
Like the ML could have forgiven him even he apologised, he waited for an answer but he didn’t receive any from the MC.
Throughout the whole story, even in the beginning i feel like the MC was such an shit character becoz yeah anyone is gonna get annoyed if you stalk them & bother them, yet ML didn’t shout or do anything trashy even once, it was just an on it reaction that anybody would have if someone annoyed them, stalked them, stuck to them like an damn leech even if they don’t want it.
Throughout the whole story, ML was actually a green flag & MC is the red flag. Honestly I really feel for the ML, not even a single true friend, not any family he can trust & even the MC broke his trust. It’s hard to heal from that.
i mean i definitely don’t think it’s an excuse for his actions but it obviously offers an explanation of why he did what he did. he clearly takes the things people say at face value. so juheon saying “if you really like me you’ll let me go” he took that as “ok i need to leave him alone then just like he said, i shouldnt go seek him out” and didn’t stop to think that maybe juheon wanted him to stop and properly apologize in the first place instead of making up some lame excuses. he’s clearly fucked up and is his now experiencing the consequences of his actions. an apology is the bare minimum of what dohu needs to do clearly but.
At the same time ml knows that mc is like this. I genuinely don't understand why play mind games like that when you can just say directly what you want from the other person. I get it he is angry but he also had 2 weeks to think about the way he took it all and if it was the best way.
At the end they're both immature and young so I guess it's ok
that’s what I’m sayinggggg! Like you can tell me that the ml should’ve just been straight up and asked for an apology but who in their right mind wouldn’t apologize right away? social disorder this and that, we understand but if it was you, you’re telling me you’d just ask the person who did this to apologize and when they do, you’d think everything is ok? Did you forget the ml was also asking the mc to tell him he liked him and that was the only times that he did? Like some people just forget to take that into account, this isn’t a break up make up, they need time apart while mc fixes whatever he got going on.











I’m so overstimulated bro