I know its random but i really need some opinions about what should i do.When i was 12 years old,i found out my dad cheated on my mom.But at that time i just dont want to believe it and try to forget about it.Yesterday,I check his phone to see if he's still doing it and found out his already have children's with another women.In my religions for man,the maximum you can get married is 4.You doesnt need to ask permissions to your wife because you can do it.its not a sin.I really dont know what should i do.I know its not fair for my mom because she doesnt know anything.But i cant bring myself to tell her because i dont want to lose the family i have right now.its so suffocating to act like idk anything in front of my father.i really wish this is all just a dream.i cant bring myself to believe that my father could do that.its just doesnt fell right.like whre did things go wrong.why would he do that.Does nt he love my mom??Please help me
Hmm well I don't know, your mom could already possibly know about it and is just acting like everythings okay to keep the family together, mothers are really strong for their babies. But since you know and have seen things, if it was my mother I'd take her aside and talk it out with her or try leaving signs for her to find out herself maybe leave his phone open to whatever he is doing with other women where she can see it. I dunno thats a tough one
Idk but your mother deserves to know the truth
From what i know abt the 4 marriage thing. If the person wants to get a 2nd wife he needs the permission of the first wife first before.(i might be wrong correct me if i am wrong this is what i was taught) and neither u nor ur mom deserves that i think u should either confront ur dad or try to tell ur mom. I can't say what ur father feels n what might happen if u bring that topic up. I wish u the best
Hey. I'm not really good at these stuff and my opinion might offend you but I'll still say it anyway.
I know that I don't have any rights to dictate your decision but I think that pretending to not know anything hurts you and your relationship more. I also think that it'll hurt your mom (in the long run) if you keep her in the dark about the whole thing. It could make her feel betrayed, you know?
Umm... I know that you don't want to lose your family but also don't want to pretend to not know anything. I think that keeping on pretending that you don't know about your dad's um affair only hurts your family more.
Maybe give some hints to your mom little by little. Don't tell her the whole thing all at once cause it might shock her. When you've given all the hints you could and your mom figures it out, convince your parents to talk it out with you and don't resort to fighting. It only makes things worst.
I know that you and other people might have a different opinion on these situations but these are just my thoughts.
If you want to hear about other people's opinions that's absolutely fine. That way, you can sort of see which way is the best way to deal with things.
Don't mean to be offensive but how old are you now? If ever you're already independent and want to get out of that situation together with your mom, better talk to her. She might be done but just taking it in blindly for your sake. It would always be good to talk to your mother when it comes to this but you have to do it calmly and with full understanding that it will not be easy to discuss about it. If ever you're still dependent on them then if your mother wishes to get out of that situation then help her by working hard to get independent someday and grant it. Still, open up about it with your mother cuz they might have solved it already but just kept it from you. Like what they said, she might have known it already. Just make sure she's not suffering.
There's a time when my mom asked my dad if he had another women,but my father said that he doesn't.My father once told me,that they had divorced.but they got married back because they still love each other.Everytime they fought,or yell at each other,we siblings always know cause they never hide it from us.I know i should be with my mom.cause its really not fair for her.i know that,but im really scared.i guess i just find it hard to believe that my father could do something like that.When i scrolled down through his chat yesterday,It feels like i dont know him at all.i cant help but thinks,why does he lies to my mom.Have he ever tells the truth.what if he doesn't love us at all.oh goshh im so selfish and stupid.im 17 years old for godsake,wth am i so afraid off.
Thank you for your guys responded,i really dont know who i should asked for help.I really appreciated it.I will try to do my best to confront my parents about this.once again,thank you very much
I never come across this kinda situation in my life but I hope that if u r independent it's better to support your mother at any cost , if she find out in any case try ti reach out to her this situation is suffocating to think but stay calm hope things get better.
Im looking for a yaoi manga,ahhh im so dumb i dont remember the title.but what i remember is the seme try to look for the uke at the uke's house.But the sisters of the uke's didnt let him in.Really appreciate your guys help.its a highschool love story too
Probably not this one but this is the only thing I can think of
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mujihi_na_anata/mf/242379/Ch5/pg-1/
Thank you soo much for your guys help ><,its not this one but i appreciate the help
Im looking for this yaoi manga,i dont really remember about the main lead story but i remember about the side characters story.which the uke is in love with the seme but the uke thought that they were just sexfriends because of the seme(but actually the seme loves him too).its a highschool love story.if anybody's can help,would really appreciate it.
For a highschool yaoi love story??
School life bl list
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/915331/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/faded_first_love/