How do you guys know if you're pansexual? 'Cause I'm genuinely confused about my sexual orientation. I do think I'm pan but I'm not really sure and I'm also worried if I'm just assuming things. Also what do I do if for example I wanna come out to my friends, but what if they say that it's just the things that I read that influences me to say this and I'm not really what I think?
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just getting this out of the way, pansexual is a micro term under bisexual, the difference is that you either have no preference for gender or you do. imma assume you already realized you are open to dating anyone, now just think about how much you wanna date men, women, enbies, whatever. after you figure that out you got your answer. if you honestly dont give af, then you're probably pan, if you do have a preference then youre probably bi. this is literally how it was explained to me when i was a teen in hs and i realized that i wasnt pan and i was actually bi. heads up tho, a couple years later i finally realized im just a big ol lesbo that couldn't stay away from old men w money lmao.
i cant help you with coming out bc while it is kinda universally nerve-wracking, its a unique experience and i simply had no issue coming out, so i dont know what to say. good luck, i hope you figure yourself out bc it truly is a beautiful thing and i hope your friends are supportive
Hey when i was vry young discovring my sexuality someone talked to me about how kids these days are gay because they see influences of it on media and think its cool and to rhis day i cant fucking trust myself even though im completely sure that i like both genders, it became somewhat of trauma so listen: IF YOU THINK YOU ARE SMTH THEN FUCK IT, thats what you are, if later on you find out you were wrong ang change its ok fuck it again and find yourself. Do not let anyone say youre confused
so hi bestie, i just saw this reply and I AM SCREAMING SJCJDJDJ because yeah, i figured it out and believed that we're solely the ones who can tell what our sexuality is,,, figuring is a long journey so yeah HAPPY PRIDEEEEEEEEEEE (i finally identified myself as Pan and already come out to some of my friends)
Do u guys perhaps know where could we find the book/novel so we could read it? Tho I think it would be in Japanese so . Anyway, this is too raw and beautiful for my heart. Made me think about my existence. I actually don't know what am I blabbering about but if you guys are also tired, please do take a break. Drink lots of water, sleep. We're gonna get through with whatever tf we're experiencing : )