Real question bc love this genre can't get enough wow♡
This most likely doesn't apply to the new hellwolf/mini-grape-by-children AU lol, too early to tell, but is it really considered grape if the person yes doesn't give consent but also doesn't resent or even mind that they got hurt? Like people are so quick to call grape as soon as the " no consent " box is marked. There are more than just verbal forms of consent. Like no consent doesn't always mean they don't want to.
This is seen so much in bl and sometimes I question if it's really such a bad thing that it is normalized. I get it ya can't read others minds but the flow takes ya togetherrrrr and it must be a common fantasy if it's such a common occurrence/topic no?
And most of the time ya tend to be more honest when under the influence so I really don't get it when people see grape more often than love. Especially when the people are officially in love or are a couple, like your body is your partner's and your partner's is yours no? So is it really considered grape at that point?
Ig if ya aren't into the topics bc of your own fantasies ya would not want to be in that situation and that would make it a tough read, but like calling it disgusting is just close minded.
Like this is a clear freak zone y'all that don't get the fetish shouldn't be judging cuzzzz ya don't feel it
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