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Just a typical case of truma bonding and possessiveness

I got that . But the FL don't want stay with him cz of the past . But doesn't she understand that he likes her or something?

I think it's because at first she didn't like how his possessiveness felt and she knew it was wrong but over time she started to see it as him being the only one that actually wants/cares for her.

I think she does know he likes her and probably she too does like him.....but she's tryna deny it,cuz of everything that's happened so far and also ....I mean him being the child of a murderer and also beating 2nd ml to a pulp for appearantly no reason ( buh we do know to an extent it has sth to do with her) and locking her up in the bunker after their reunion...she tryna deny the fact so hard cuz she's afraid of him

And if you also think why is she now staying or always going back to find him,cuz as much as he scares her, she also feels seen and treated more like a person when he's around....
I hope I answered your question and didn't confuse you further 〒.〒

I love how you stated everything so well. The girl really has some serious attachment issues due to her family, and I very much agree on how they were trauma bonding. She’s definitely scared, but like how some groomers groom their victims—she’s somehow in a similar situation—only that the guy isn’t really grooming her, she’s just super void of affection and he’s giving her that…

Although ladies and gents… please never settle in any way to a guy like that. Both of them needs therapy, but settling when a person is in a dangerous state without receiving help is dangerous to both of the them. RED FLAG! And a person’s past and mental state should not excuse that.

Very well agreed

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